Gay guys are such jerks, I need advice Options

[REBELnDISGUISE]

Yesterday I met this guy at school right. And I liked him. And when I spoke to him...he was like..."I can't handle a relationship right now". I was like...okay i can understand with school and all right? Then after school...I was inthe library...and he came outof no whre and sat next to me. I was okay... And next thing I knew...we were in the boys bathroom making out...

He was all I thought about...and I ould sleep last night cause he was on my mind. I selpt at like 1ish. Well...his free mod (period) was 13. I had that mod off too. So I was looking forward to it the whole day. But when it came...he said...In order to get good grades...i cant do this. I was so...hurt. No one has made me feel this way in a long time. Now I dont know what to do. Stay depressed or move on? But how could I move on?

-Vinny

[ClaudelGFX]

Heh, that's only a lame excuse, move on, since he doesnt even deserve's you. Maybe he only made a bet with his jerky friends that he can makeout with you lol,sorry. Because you know, the only way to get out off anykind of problems or to forget about them, even school or whatever is to have someone you care about beside you to talk with or whatever, just to make you forget about anything else around, like RL problems,school or anything.... iMO

For some people, including myself at moment, focusing on education takes priority over a love life. Instead of being depressed about it you should be glad that he has his priorites in check and move on. You move on by  focusing on things that are important in your life like school, hobbies, extracurricular activites.

You have your point too, but IMO you have all your life to study/work and all those, but since the time doesnt stands by and the years are passing by you with sound speed, all this stages of your life are unique and if you dont take advantage of them at the proper age, you cant do that l8r when you're getting old, and as we all know, teenage and those stages of life are unique so... i guess if you can handle to use them as equal parts, the fun, love and study/school you will have some memories from this stages of your life when you will get old, but if you burry yourself into study/school/work over your head, all you will remember is that you were wasting your time learning dunno for what project/class at one point/stage of your life, dunno what's best to remember, i let you think about that.

i had friends that broke up with their gf's or bf's because of grades, its not always a lame excuse. but if thats how he feels you shouldnt sulk about it, its never good to be depressed. Move on whether he's lying to you or not. thats my opinion, hope i helped haha

How could affect your grades, you BF/GF? Loving and carring about you? O.o If you care so much about your grades why dont you ask your GF/BF to help you? because you dont like to be helped?(shame on you) Or because its more easy to brakeup with someone with that reason/excuse? Because the other person you are brakingup with, has a heart too and maybe she can't understand that reason/excuse since she is not a piece of paper from a book you are learning from. heh, am i irrelevant?

This post has been edited by Claudel: Sep 20 2005, 05:37 PM