hi, i'm an ugly 15 year old girl, =) |
 Sep 17 2005, 11:24 AM
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like my title?
 Anyway, i'm just here to rant. I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend in my entire life. I'm okay with this, but it gets worse. It just seems like guys don't like me. at all. The last guy who liked me was in 4th grade, and let me tell you, that is a long time ago. It's not like i'm antisocial with guys or anything, they just don't really want to get to know me. I think the reason is that I'm not "pretty" or hot, i'm...quite ugly, in fact. I love my personality, but I hate my looks. -sigh- stupid shallowness. I haven't even been to a high school dance and i'm a sophomore...not planning on to either. Any tips on how to cope? |
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Sep 18 2005, 12:32 AM
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QUOTE(chii @ Sep 17 2005, 11:41 AM) so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't want to go to any high school dances, and you blame other people for your problems. fantastic, i mean after all it's their fault for not loving your personality that you love so much. all guys must be shallow.   social situations can be more akward for some than others. not all guys are completely shallow, no, but when they have a choice between two girls they like about the same, they're going to go with the more attractive one. don't give them too much credit. putting it that way doesn't f**king help anything, because yeah, it does help to have other people like you back. QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 17 2005, 5:54 PM) I think your problem is not your looks or your personality, but a lack of confidence. Guys dig confidence. Guys are just naturally more comfortable around a girl who is sure of herself and happy with herself. Basically, you won't find a guy until you know who you are and are happy with who you are. So maybe you're not the prettiest girl in school, right? Well, first of all, you probably look fine; but don't focus on looks, focus on something else. Carry yourself right, and people will admire you, including guys. Take some time to get to know yourself and get to know who you are, and everything will work out.  QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 17 2005, 8:21 PM) oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah get ova it. you rant ova stupid stuff, maybe if you were a mature 15 year old, you might have a chance on a boy. well unless u wanna be used as booty, thats fine if it fills your satisication(sp?) don't be obnoxious I'm 16, perfectly mature and I NEVER whine about these things offline, but yeah, sometimes you do have to wonder what makes you so undesirable and lets the world pass you by socially. I'm 16, and have never had the slightest embyo of a relationship. But, you kmow, you just have to remain optimistic and hope things will eventually come around. Don't be prematurwly bitter like me; things don't seen to be looking up anytime soon |
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x_shattered hi, i'm an ugly 15 year old girl Sep 17 2005, 11:24 AM
Paradox of Life Lucky you. And I'm not saying this with sarcas... Sep 17 2005, 11:31 AM
yanners QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 18 2005, 12:31 AM)Lucky y... Sep 18 2005, 01:39 AM
GetMiNE_GetY0URS QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Sep 17 2005, 11:31 AM... Sep 20 2005, 07:48 PM Chii so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't ... Sep 17 2005, 11:41 AM x_shattered QUOTE(chii @ Sep 17 2005, 11:41 AM)so, you ad... Sep 17 2005, 01:10 PM SSJ Kenshin QUOTE(Chii @ Sep 17 2005, 12:41 PM)so, you ad... Sep 20 2005, 07:21 PM Nicolatofu I'm in total agreement with Katt. The only rea... Sep 17 2005, 11:41 AM mishyerr well, it's not really surprising that you have... Sep 17 2005, 11:48 AM Madame C I know how you feel.
But you don't want a stu... Sep 17 2005, 01:40 PM Lo Mein STEP ONE
Get over yourself...people aren't goi... Sep 17 2005, 01:49 PM one_and_only QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Sep 17 2005, 11:49 AM)STEP ON... Sep 17 2005, 04:33 PM silver rain So what? When I was 15, I haven't had a boyfri... Sep 17 2005, 03:42 PM pastellove_ yes.gain confidence and devote your time to someth... Sep 17 2005, 03:48 PM Shortiiex the right guy will come in like 10 years....right ... Sep 17 2005, 03:59 PM jeanna QUOTE(x_shattered @ Sep 17 2005, 11:24 AM)lik... Sep 17 2005, 04:03 PM aznhunnie6o1 You should have confidence in yourself. What you t... Sep 17 2005, 04:15 PM mind_of_its_own don't even worry about it. The right guy will ... Sep 17 2005, 04:16 PM pandamonium dont worrie you will find someone, your probably a... Sep 17 2005, 04:33 PM peggysturr Boost your self-esteem. That's all I can say. Sep 17 2005, 05:01 PM mipadi I think your problem is not your looks or your per... Sep 17 2005, 05:54 PM mouse_3k oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah
get ova... Sep 17 2005, 08:21 PM x_shattered QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 17 2005, 8:21 PM)oh boow... Sep 18 2005, 12:08 AM Shahin QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 17 2005, 5:21 PM)oh boow... Sep 18 2005, 11:02 PM x____duckii I can relate, kind of, 'cept that I'm only... Sep 17 2005, 09:00 PM andromeda_90 Hey it's alright if you don't have a boyfr... Sep 17 2005, 09:15 PM Kameko why get a boyfriend. get a girlfriend. yes yes yes... Sep 18 2005, 01:46 AM LittleLulu ok lets make this short
1-ur lucky ur not super p... Sep 18 2005, 05:48 AM Claudel Heh, not so nice to see a girl thinking like that,... Sep 18 2005, 07:02 AM _sarcastic_ well if you keep putting yourself down like that, ... Sep 18 2005, 09:55 AM i heart john Psh. What is ugly, anyway? Sep 18 2005, 09:57 AM archana Same here. I dont need a guy though ;P I fly solo.... Sep 18 2005, 11:51 AM xxaznxgurlxx If you don't respect yourself for who you are;... Sep 18 2005, 01:48 PM ichiban wow, so you say you're ugly and guys don't... Sep 18 2005, 03:57 PM mouse_3k QUOTELearn how to read. I am simply asking for tip... Sep 18 2005, 04:11 PM tweeak QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 18 2005, 4:11 PM)ok youn... Sep 18 2005, 05:20 PM _sarcastic_ QUOTE(tweeak @ Sep 18 2005, 5:20 PM)You'r... Sep 18 2005, 05:47 PM airam confidence is sexy.
this a lame topic.
or maybe yo... Sep 18 2005, 05:38 PM Julie Ann That sucks for you! I have never been kissed o... Sep 18 2005, 08:26 PM mouse_3k QUOTEYou're unpleasant, please shut up.
it is... Sep 18 2005, 08:38 PM mipadi QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 18 2005, 9:38 PM)it is u... Sep 18 2005, 09:04 PM tweeak QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 18 2005, 8:38 PM)it is u... Sep 18 2005, 09:08 PM mouse_3k ^ lol yes I do thank you.
in MY opinion, it thin... Sep 19 2005, 10:31 AM mipadi QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 19 2005, 11:31 AM)Thats ... Sep 19 2005, 11:16 AM x_shattered mipadi and tweeak
You guys have it right, unlik... Sep 19 2005, 06:48 PM tweeak You're welcome. We seem to have a lot in commo... Sep 19 2005, 07:23 PM rinchan089 I KNOW YOU"VE COME TO TERMS WITH THIS YOURSEL... Sep 19 2005, 08:07 PM samsam5886 awww I know how u feel!! If u want we can ... Sep 19 2005, 08:21 PM malimars WOW BE HAPPY BOUT IT GUYS R HEADACHES AND U WILL F... Sep 19 2005, 08:30 PM Claudel Anyway i have a girl friend, who is 32 years old n... Sep 20 2005, 06:34 PM ahoytheremate! haha Sep 22 2005, 06:50 PM Spiritual Winged Aura i'm 14 and dont got one =) Sep 24 2005, 01:33 AM celticsluvr join a club and meet some new people; that should ... Sep 24 2005, 12:45 PM itsnever4ever QUOTE"gettin over yourself" isnt the sam... Sep 24 2005, 06:40 PM dao theres always ppl out there..
but it is true, boy... Sep 24 2005, 06:53 PM mipadi QUOTE(dao @ Sep 24 2005, 7:53 PM)but it is tr... Sep 24 2005, 07:08 PM Olive QUOTE(dao @ Sep 25 2005, 9:53 AM)but it is tr... Sep 25 2005, 03:07 AM VarsMOlta hey every girl is pretty dont ever think you are u... Sep 24 2005, 09:28 PM hammers and hearts hey have some confidence! just because the ri... Sep 24 2005, 09:36 PM suddenly she chin up. confidence is awesome.
i can't say i... Sep 24 2005, 09:37 PM BOLIN_Vee i think maybe u need to get out more. thats what ... Sep 24 2005, 11:57 PM xbby_charmz try having a little more confidence. i got broken ... Sep 25 2005, 02:33 AM danielle_x3 when the time is right, you'll find the right ... Sep 25 2005, 09:35 AM andromeda_90 You know you really shouldn't go working on ge... Sep 25 2005, 09:48 AM FREEcandies QUOTE(x_shattered @ Sep 17 2005, 8:24 AM)like... Sep 25 2005, 11:52 AM yummy_delight Deal with it. A lot of us are in the same boat. Wa... Sep 25 2005, 12:00 PM jooleeah Gain some self respect and confidence. Don't c... Sep 25 2005, 12:01 PM tommyhilfiger_gurl if your personality is good, then i would say get ... Sep 27 2005, 05:46 PM OhXiet_ItzDonnA ^Please make your signature smaller. It's stre... Sep 28 2005, 05:11 PM CrazayChristian You could be the hottest woman on earth, but if yo... Sep 29 2005, 06:11 PM ChEeR A HOliC Xo Hey Hun,
I know this may seem hard for you. I ne... Sep 29 2005, 07:09 PM bad_girl you can do it, just believe that you can. have mor... Oct 2 2005, 12:08 AM |
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