problems with friends, .. Options

[xxbebot]

okay so my friends and someone i thought was my friend. lets say the girl is lisa and the two guys are john and nathan.

okay so lisa goes to a different school and she was on a website and found my friends aa. she added john. after awhile, she told john she liked him. then john started liking her. then she met nathan. she said he was hott and that was her reason of liking him. she told him she liked him after two days. two days. so then john found out and started being so depressed. so i try to help him. he start telling me how he just wont be hopeful anymore... and how hes mad at nathan. and him and nathan are like really good friends. and like whats pissing me off is that lisa keeps on acting all close with my friends. she never even met them. and shes making them visit her. john, nathan and their other friends. but john and nathan dont wanna go and they tell her. then she gets mad and now their going. but like once she sees nathan shes gonna be all over him and might ruin his friendship with john. i know i sound jealous. but i just dont want john too get hurt.. and its pissing me off how she acts all close w/ my firends..

[*anubis*]

it's great that you sound concerned about your friends. lots of people wouldn't have given a shit and it's good to see that you care about how your friends are treated.

basically, this girl is a controlling bitch. there's so many of them out there these days. they usually have a hot body and use their looks to take advantage of people/situations. sorta like a female-playa.

and the frustrating part is, you can't even slap her or anything. how unfair, right?

but john and nathan dont wanna go and they tell her. then she gets mad and now their going.

...and going along with this bitch, fulfilling her every demands doesn't exactly help the situation. i'm surprised they're being so whipped about it, considering most people wouldn't, so she must be quite a catch.

the honest thing is, there's nothing you can really do. you can only hope that either john, nathan, or preferably both of them see one day just how big of a bitch she is.

and then they might realize she's not worth it. she's not worth them costing the whole friendship ordeal, and she's surely not worth sticking around with.

they might be too confused or dazed, mezmerized by her, whatever, to realize what she's doing, but they'll see.

just try and knock some sense into them.