Letting Go.., of the person you care for... |
 Sep 13 2005, 08:25 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana"  Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049  |
How can i say this; i used to like someone;but i guess my feelings just changed; so i dont really want to be such close friends with this person anymore; but they currently want to do EVERYTHING with me! lets just say me and this person are like best friends! its me [girl], and my friend [guy]; what can i do to not be so attached to this person; yet still keep a still friendship with this person; i mean i still truly care for this person; we have done most everything together in the past.
Oh another problem is i always have this person on my mind; but i know i have to stop feeling so close; but then another part of me just wants to keep being the best of friends with this person. and i already tried not calling him; waiting for him to call but i could not help myself and i called just to hear his voice!! PLEASE HELP! also; if you're dealing or delt with the same issue please post! |
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Sep 13 2005, 11:18 PM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
omg i have the same problem.. but we are not BEST friends we are lyk GREAT friends. lol but my story (in the shortest version ever..lol)
Before i use to lyk him and he use to lyk me.. did everyting together then all of a sudden he stop lyking me.. but my "crush" for him still went on. I tried to do everything I can just to hear/be near him. Then all of a sudden i had no feelings what so ever.. so i stopped all the flirting calling.. everything! and then the next week i hear he lyks me .. and then i don't even try to go for him.. but deep down in my soul iwanted to be near him.. but i said no to myself.. so0o.. if you don't want to be near him yet then you want to.. be limited.. don't TALK to him everydaii and try not to think/see him everydaii. It takes little by little to let someoen go.. yet if you do this maybe at one point in time.. you'll be able to let go and just kall him a friend. |
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celticsluvr Letting Go.. Sep 13 2005, 08:25 PM
lit0chinagirl hmm i'm a little confused. you say your feelin... Sep 13 2005, 08:33 PM DEbmxer553 Ok, now are you two just friends or are you going ... Sep 13 2005, 08:47 PM celticsluvr Thanks, for respoding so quick! But yeah he ki... Sep 13 2005, 09:43 PM anubis i went through about the same thing over the summe... Sep 13 2005, 10:15 PM celticsluvr WOW^ thanks. That i think is going to work. yeah t... Sep 13 2005, 10:22 PM yuna* um, I kinda had the same situation as you before..... Sep 13 2005, 10:36 PM lit0chinagirl ohh alright. it makes much more sense to me. well ... Sep 13 2005, 11:13 PM
celticsluvr i'm so happy im not the only one going through... Sep 14 2005, 05:48 PM |
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