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Letting Go.., of the person you care for...
steezahh
post Sep 13 2005, 08:25 PM
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How can i say this; i used to like someone;but i guess my feelings just changed; so i dont really want to be such close friends with this person anymore; but they currently want to do EVERYTHING with me! lets just say me and this person are like best friends! its me [girl], and my friend [guy]; what can i do to not be so attached to this person; yet still keep a still friendship with this person; i mean i still truly care for this person; we have done most everything together in the past.
Oh another problem is i always have this person on my mind; but i know i have to stop feeling so close; but then another part of me just wants to keep being the best of friends with this person. and i already tried not calling him; waiting for him to call but i could not help myself and i called just to hear his voice!!
PLEASE HELP! also; if you're dealing or delt with the same issue please post!
 
 
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lit0chinagirl
post Sep 13 2005, 11:13 PM
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ohh alright. it makes much more sense to me. well i don't know if it helps but when what anubis said is pretty much it. i just split with my ex and well i don't have any classes with him but i see him around the halls a bit and the feelings sort of come back again but when i'm not near him and with other people, i'm fine because my mind is elsewhere and he isn't around to remind me. awhile, it should be fine. take a brief break from him or just don't have him around as much. meet some new people. get closer to some of your other friends. i mean i got my friends to make me feel better =] man i'm nothing without them. good luck. i hope you can still keep him in your life. you wouldn't want to lose someone that was once so important.
 

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