miss him? Options

[CALiFORNiAxBEBE]

well the guy i use to like last year i had a class with him and this year i dont and i only have 2 lunches with him [we have like 1st lunch and second lunch /school divided] and i hanhg out with his friend in the morning and i see him sometimes but rarely. he always says hi to me in the halls and stuff. and i hella miss him. like talking to him and stuff:[

wat do i do. haha. im so lame. but yeah im bored and i was wondering what u guys do when u miss someone.

[*anubis*]

holy shit. our situations are so similar it's scary.

but yeah. i'm sure tons of other people go through the same thing we do, and i sure as hell understand the pain or frustration that you go through.

see, i don't know about you, but what scares me the most is that fact that i'm afraid that this separation or lack of communication would weaken the relationship it took me months to develop. and maybe you might have the same feelings i do.

you know--going in early in the morning, or walking in specific halls--not necessarily en route to your classes, but just to get a glance or squeeze in a conversation with that long lost love.

and there's really nothing you can do about it. fate can be tricky sometimes. what i recommend is, if you've lost all connection through school, try to get to him through other ways.

talk to him online, get his phone number, e-mail, ask him to the movies? hang out with him. it's the only thing you can do if you want to strengthen that relationship if it really means a lot to you.

otherwise, it will weaken and maybe even crumble if you just let it go on like that. because it's natural for people to lose closeness after separation.