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darkmark111
post Sep 5 2005, 09:28 PM
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Okay I ran a search and then looked through all the topics by hand and I don't think one like this has been started...please close it if I'm wrong.

I have a wonderful bf. We are so in love and mostly happy, but (and there's always a but) he's ready to do a lot more than I am. Or so he says. I really love him, but sometimes I still feel like such a kid. I'm not ready for sex. We're both turning 15 in January, and he feels that's old enough. I know he would never pressure me, and he hasn't - I just feel like I'm not giving him all he needs.

I don't know what to do. I really don't want to do something I'm not ready for! pinch.gif
 
 
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shortiiex
post Sep 5 2005, 09:39 PM
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Just tell him you are not ready, if he loves you he should understand. Just because yuo don't complete him doesn't mean that you should do something you don't want. It's not always about him you know.
 
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post Sep 6 2005, 05:12 PM
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QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Sep 5 2005, 10:39 PM)
Just tell him you are not ready, if he loves you he should understand. Just because yuo don't complete him doesn't mean that you should do something you don't want. It's not always about him you know.
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I agree. Just tell him how you're feeling, and that you're not ready, and if he really did love you, then he should understand and be fine with it. You shouldn't worry about not giving him what he needs.
 

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