Getting over someone?, How... |
 Jun 22 2005, 09:33 AM
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You guys are dumb.  Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094  |
I just got out of a 1 year relationship and I find that getting over that person that I love is hard as hell. She and I are still good friends, but everytime I talk to her hurts so bad. I don't want to ruin this friendship like how I ruined the relationship, but I don't know how to get over it. Post your expeiences?
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Sep 4 2005, 10:37 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
i went out w/ one of my best guy friends for about five months in the eighth grade. towards the end of the relationship, we weren't exactly, per se, going out. it was more like something where we were called gf&&bf, but we weren't really talking or anything. soo, as far as i know, he began to like this other girl in the end. she was one of those people that everyone loves;; perfect, friendly, and pretty in every way. naturally, i felt defensive towards my bf and i was really hurt that he liked her; even though our relationship wasn't going anywhere. and about a week or two later, we broke up and we stayed best friends.. but even still, there's always a drift between us; due to all those unspoken things on my part about that other girl.
now, it's been over a year, and recently, he called the other girl up and told her that he's liked her for a while now. and, even though it's been such a long while, i felt really hurt inside. because she and him grew closer as i grew farther from him, and because he liked her while i was going out, i felt [&&feel] like she's, in a way, replacing me. and i know i'm over him, i think it's more of a second nature reaction b/c of the circumstances.  sorry for all that. but in response to your question: move on by going out and meeting new people. talk to your ex about your relationship. things that go unsaid are often the greatest things you'll ever learn to regret. 
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