Fcuk you. I hate you., But I still love you. =p Options

[iheartjohn]

Baby, why?


Relationships are based on love. You can't have love if you don't have trust. Baby, why don't you trust me?

I have true love for you. Love that I have for the girl, love I have for you. We love her equally, we have to make us happy for her. I want you happy. I want you to have a good life.

You've given me something no one else could have done. This feeling I can't even describe.

That's pain, that nagging. Why should it return? What's there to make you insecure?

You're beautiful. You're wonderful. You're mine.

I love you.

^ Quote from my Myspace blog.


You guys know I'm engaged. There's a reason I didn't get married. (Actually two. But only Naomi and Rachel know the other reason.)

My fiance is CRAZY. His insecurity is driving me nuts. He gets so jealous when I'm around other men. Like I would ever cheat. I never act like it, I never flirt, I never dress like I'm looking for another man.

WTF is up with him? I love him to death, but I hate him for not trusting me.

I don't want to leave him. But I feel like he doesn't love me if he doesn't trust me. =[

What should I do?

To make this more topic oriented, have you had an over-protective or jealous boy/girlfriend? What's with the insecurities?

[*mzkandi*]

The most obvious reason is because you are a beautiful woman and very strong. These are qualites that would attract the average guy. But honestly, I think it may have something to do with the age difference between you guys. Why? Because if I was a older man, dating a much younger woman, I would be thinking there are so many things in her life that she hasnt experienced, especially in the love area. She may be tempted to experience others thing, with another guy, to confirm whether or not she is truely in love. That could lead to insecurites. Its just a theory. Whatever the case may be, its not right and if you havent told him about it, you seriously need to. Tell him that his insecurites about it hurt both you and the relationship.