How do you deal, when all your parents do is argue? |
 Sep 2 2005, 09:01 PM
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How do you cope when all your family does is argue, argue, and argue some more? Then you get dragged into it, and get your feelings hurt...
It's just pissing me off. Long story short, my dad has double standards for himself. He can do what no one else can. All he tells my mom is that he's going out and will be back in about an hour. He didn't come back until about 8, when he called at about 4 or 5 (plus he comes in tipsy). But he knew we had plans to do something, but he doesn't care. Not to mention, he tells my mom that he doesn't keep track of time, he can take care of himself. But if me and my mom go out, and say we'll be back at 11, 11:01 he's calling, asking us why we aren't home yet. I don't know how the hell to cope with this anymore. For all i know, he can be cheating on my mom. He yells at me for almost anything now. I don't know what i'm supposed to do. Gawd, i feel like an idiot for posting this now 
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Sep 3 2005, 07:31 PM
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I have been in this situation a lot of my life and have had to deal with my mom putting me in the middle of it and i know how much it sucks. As far as dealing with it i usually write and blast some music. I think the most important though is to have someone to talk to about it( not neccasarily in the family). I think you need to be able to talk about it and show how you feel about it at least sometimes. I didnt have that and now i am so messed up and its so hard for me to show how i feel because i got so used to hiding it. Trust me you dont want that. Good Luck
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PrettyBrownEyez3 How do you deal Sep 2 2005, 09:01 PM
Chii talk to him about it. he's never going to chan... Sep 2 2005, 09:03 PM PrettyBrownEyez3 We do. We have. But it doesn't end up anywhere... Sep 2 2005, 09:05 PM Chii that's horrible...i don't really know what... Sep 2 2005, 09:14 PM
PrettyBrownEyez3 Thanks =\ Sep 2 2005, 09:16 PM H0t.P1nk.L1p5 Man.....that is shit...and I understand your situa... Sep 2 2005, 09:31 PM PrettyBrownEyez3 QUOTE(H0t.P1nk.L1p5 @ Sep 2 2005, 9:31 PM)Man... Sep 3 2005, 12:27 AM H0t.P1nk.L1p5 also.....how long has this been going on? .....is ... Sep 2 2005, 09:34 PM c0cONuTTeR Talk to them.
Communication. Sep 2 2005, 09:38 PM Spiritual Winged Aura ^
Didnt you read the rest of the post. it didnt he... Sep 2 2005, 11:17 PM xscore eh. i know how it feels.
when my parents argue, i ... Sep 3 2005, 12:49 PM Cwlplover My parents have been divorced since I was five, an... Sep 3 2005, 12:51 PM krispy_kreme333 My parent have been divorced since i was 4. they u... Sep 3 2005, 02:33 PM iNyCxShoRT Your post reminds me of the song how to deal. But ... Sep 3 2005, 06:47 PM mouse_3k when my parents fight, i dont care. its nothing sp... Sep 3 2005, 06:57 PM andromeda_90 I can barely imagine what you go through. The only... Sep 3 2005, 07:09 PM PrettyBrownEyez3 Thank you guys a lot. All the advice helped and ga... Sep 3 2005, 08:59 PM |
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