I need advice, I cannot take it anymore! -_- Options

[BrokenDream]

first of all, I am not jealous. just wanted to say this. and also, I don't know where this goes. so if a Mod can move it to the right spot, you may.

have you ever felt happy, or sad, or angry? I am right now at the same time. all of them. I went to six flags today with my sister, her boyfriend, and myself. I thought that it wouldn't be a problem with my sister's boyfriend there.
I WAS WRONG!

here we go. (LONG story)

you see, the whole time my sister and her boyfriend were holding hands, leaning on each other, and all this other stuff. wouldn't that make you a little angry? I haven't spent time with my sister in such a long time. and most of the time, she was holding hands, or whatever with her boyfriend. her friend seems a little upset just like me. because she can barely talk to my sis anymore because of those two doing something.

I tried talking to my sister to lay off. because this is a time to spend time with me (mostly) and friends. you can still be together with your boyfriend? but, it hurts the feelings of my sisters friend, and me (I am the little sister in this point of view. not that little though, lol) I thought to myself, "do that holding hands, and blah on a freaking date. not here. you are making us feel lonely. you are always with your boyfriend doing something).

she spends time with us, still, and we did have a great time. but, this really bugs me. and most of her friends. well, her friend that was there anyways.

my sis is not a bad person. she comfort my fear on one of the biggest, and fastest rollercoasters in Texas (Mr.Freeze). thank you, my sis. but, her friend, and I are sick of them not paying that much attention as she is surpose to, with us! so, I talked to her. but she did it again. why didn't you just talk to your boyfriend, and say to stop? thats my question. no, I am not jealous. don't think about saying this. I don't live with my sister, and it's hard being apart. I haven't seen her in a long time, and I have to deal with this crap!?

at this church thing, my sisters friend, my sister, and her boyfriend (again.. sigh) went to this party thing. I wasn't there because I was going to six flags with them on Saturday. so, once, my sisters friend sees my sister, and her boyfriend kissing in the hallway. not paying ANY attention to my sisters friend. notta. none. zip.

can't you see how obbsessed they are with each other? I do not mind, but this is where I draw the LINE.

you see what I mean? if my sister has a problem with this, I have a problem with her. this is the first time that I have ever had a problem with my sister. now her boyfriend?

okay, so, what should I do? I tried talking. but that doesn't work. I don't want them to break up, or whatsoever. help? please.

[ClaudelGFX]

my sis is not a bad person. she comfort my fear on one of the biggest, and fastest rollercoasters in Texas (Mr.Freeze). thank you, my sis. but, her friend, and I are sick of them not paying that much attention as she is surpose to, with us! so, I talked to her. but she did it again. why didn't you just talk to your boyfriend, and say to stop? thats my question. no, I am not jealous. don't think about saying this. I don't live with my sister, and it's hard being apart. I haven't seen her in a long time, and I have to deal with this crap!?

at this church thing, my sisters friend, my sister, and her boyfriend (again.. sigh) went to this party thing. I wasn't there because I was going to six flags with them on Saturday. so, once, my sisters friend sees my sister, and her boyfriend kissing in the hallway. not paying ANY attention to my sisters friend. notta. none. zip.

can't you see how obbsessed they are with each other? I do not mind, but this is where I draw the LINE.

okay, so, what should I do? I tried talking. but that doesn't work. I don't want them to break up, or whatsoever. help? please.

I think you should take,what you can get,pushing your sister's hand,with this things wont do anything then,make the relationship between you and har more colder and distant? why ? because she is more older then you (i guess),and now she wants to have something that she didnt have untill now,something new,different,and NOT EVEN 1 RELATIONSHIP IS THE SAME,she can have 239492394 BF's that doesnt mean it will be the same,what you could do,its to stick to her,ONLY when she is alone,BECAUSE EVERYTIME SHE WILL BE WITH HER BF,YOU WILL BE LEFT OUT.so for her at this point, her relationship/BF is more important then you,you can't understand why now,because you're too young,you'll understand this things when you will growup and you will see that its not so easy to keep relationship this days to work,you have to do somet sacrifices,you have to loose something to gain something else....its like a trade,but not always it will be fair enuff for all,so anyway,anyhow you can't do anything,even you will try to brake that relationship,its only up to them,you can't do anything,
you should thank her,for the LITTLE but PRECIOUS time you have her beside's you,if you do argue with her,because she spends more time with her BF then with you,you wont do anything then making all things worse between you and your sister.

PS:try to explain her,that you miss her more then ever,etc...with this kind of words all will work better
PS2:BE SURE when she feels that something is not good and or she has problems,she will come and TALK TO YOU,not with her BF.(depends the type of the problem and or what kind of relationship they have)

Be Happy you're still young,time goes by so fast and it will be your turn soon to be just like your sister,and you'll remember that you was asking for an advice about this kind of problems on CB ;-)

all IMO.