The Worst Mistake of MY life, Can I have advice? Options

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Well, I need HELP!

In now in 8th grade.. but What i'm now telling you.. took place when I was in 6th grade. You see this guy that I liked starting talking to one of my friends on AIM. And she told me about the things they would talk about. So, one day I was online and he IMed me. [I assumed that my friend had given him my screen name] And we started to talk, and I found out that he liked me.. and I like him too. It was like a dream come true. Untill one day he asked me to be his girl friend. That's when I panicked. I told him that I'd think about it, and thats when I made the biggest mistake of my life. I told him NO.

You see, I am the youngest in my family.. I have two older brothers. And at that time neither of them had EVER gone on a date. So I told him no, because I thought that my parents would tell me that I was TOO YOUNG to go out. Now I'm starting to like him again.


Now, I'm in my last year of middle school, and I know that high school next year I'll meet cute guys, new guys. And What if I might want to go out with them. I want your advice. Should I go behind my parents backs and go out with a guy that I meet... Or should i tell them. But if I tell them, HOW? I feel so scared to tell them, cause my father seems so strict. He's going to have to meet the guy and make sure hes not someone my dad doesn't want me going out with. He hasn't said this, but I KNOW it will happen

Any advice? Please?

-Christina

[ClaudelGFX]

You see, I am the youngest in my family.. I have two older brothers. And at that time neither of them had EVER gone on a date. So I told him no, because I thought that my parents would tell me that I was TOO YOUNG to go out. Now I'm starting to like him again. 

Should I go behind my parents backs and go out with a guy that I meet... Or should i tell them. But if I tell them, HOW? I feel so scared to tell them, cause my father seems so strict. He's going to have to meet the guy and make sure hes not someone my dad doesn't want me going out with. He hasn't said this, but I KNOW it will happen

Dunno what to say,but i always knew how to explain to my folks ,that my life is MY LIFE,and i dont need anything,nor even advice's from them,so my point is,not they go out my GF,so its ONLY my problem,not their. (but yanow im male,not girl,on your side its kinda important for your dad,to protect you,because all of you may know,this strict things can "keep you alive",why i say this? because there are 23040230 pervs who for 5 minutes of his happyness,hurts a girl and maybe she will remain shocked for her entire life,for that 5 minutes:/ (i was talking about "rape's), that's why every parent are thinking this strict things could help you to stay outta problems,day by day... that's all, you should appreciate this,cuz there are parents who dont even care.... but when you think they are more then strict and they overreact you can explain what you're thinking,and what are your feelings for that person,and if they "CARE" about you,they will accept any1 YOU like. (the age is not important)

PS:i have 1 guy who lives in the same block with me,he's 38 years old single man doh! why ? she always listened to his mom,when he liked a girl,he always was asking his mom,if its good what he wants to do,if that would be the woman his mom wants to have in their home,doh <- really retarted, basicly all his life, his mom,thinked for him. doh.

You should know what's best for you,not others.