I need advice, I cannot take it anymore! -_- Options

[BrokenDream]

first of all, I am not jealous. just wanted to say this. and also, I don't know where this goes. so if a Mod can move it to the right spot, you may.

have you ever felt happy, or sad, or angry? I am right now at the same time. all of them. I went to six flags today with my sister, her boyfriend, and myself. I thought that it wouldn't be a problem with my sister's boyfriend there.
I WAS WRONG!

here we go. (LONG story)

you see, the whole time my sister and her boyfriend were holding hands, leaning on each other, and all this other stuff. wouldn't that make you a little angry? I haven't spent time with my sister in such a long time. and most of the time, she was holding hands, or whatever with her boyfriend. her friend seems a little upset just like me. because she can barely talk to my sis anymore because of those two doing something.

I tried talking to my sister to lay off. because this is a time to spend time with me (mostly) and friends. you can still be together with your boyfriend? but, it hurts the feelings of my sisters friend, and me (I am the little sister in this point of view. not that little though, lol) I thought to myself, "do that holding hands, and blah on a freaking date. not here. you are making us feel lonely. you are always with your boyfriend doing something).

she spends time with us, still, and we did have a great time. but, this really bugs me. and most of her friends. well, her friend that was there anyways.

my sis is not a bad person. she comfort my fear on one of the biggest, and fastest rollercoasters in Texas (Mr.Freeze). thank you, my sis. but, her friend, and I are sick of them not paying that much attention as she is surpose to, with us! so, I talked to her. but she did it again. why didn't you just talk to your boyfriend, and say to stop? thats my question. no, I am not jealous. don't think about saying this. I don't live with my sister, and it's hard being apart. I haven't seen her in a long time, and I have to deal with this crap!?

at this church thing, my sisters friend, my sister, and her boyfriend (again.. sigh) went to this party thing. I wasn't there because I was going to six flags with them on Saturday. so, once, my sisters friend sees my sister, and her boyfriend kissing in the hallway. not paying ANY attention to my sisters friend. notta. none. zip.

can't you see how obbsessed they are with each other? I do not mind, but this is where I draw the LINE.

you see what I mean? if my sister has a problem with this, I have a problem with her. this is the first time that I have ever had a problem with my sister. now her boyfriend?

okay, so, what should I do? I tried talking. but that doesn't work. I don't want them to break up, or whatsoever. help? please.

[mai_z]

first of all, I am not jealous. just wanted to say this. and also, I don't know where this goes. so if a Mod can move it to the right spot, you may.

Yes you are. You can deny it, but you are jealous of the attention that her boyfriend is getting and you're not. She is your sister no matter what, and she will still be there for you. However, your sister and her boyfriend are infatuated with each other, and stuff like this is going to happen. If you want something to change, then go ahead and speak to your sister about it, but put yourself in her situation. It would just make her uncomfortable, and potentially unhappy about the situation, and about upsetting you.

Personally, I would just let it go, and if you want alone time with your sister, then make it *alone* time (alone...as in JUST you two)