I have been thinking a lot lately.... Options

[DEbmxer553]

Ok, so I have been thinking alot lately....about the whole relationship thing and all. See i have been single for about the past 8 or 9 months and I hate it. I liked it for probaly about the first 2 months but then it just got boring since I am not really one of those people who is lucky enough to have like random makeout sessions and such. But anyway so I was thinking, why are girls so stupid sometimes? There are plenty of guys that would go out with them, okay so maybe they arent Brad Pitt but they arent that bad, but they dont want them, they end up going out with the guy who is obviously going to cheat on them, hit them, throw them around, and just be a horrible boyfriend with no real connection. And they weirdest part is, in these kind of relationships these girls just do whatever the boyfriend wants, so usually they end up loosing their virginity. Why do girls put themselves out like that and be such whores sometimes? I know it isn't all girls, but it is a good percent. I am just really kind of confused with the whole thing. I do not understand women, and I never plan to. It is just odd, why would a girl stay with a guy that is obviously cheating on her and treats her like shit. Then when he says there is no reason for treating her like shit after they broke up and she makes it sound like it is her fault. What BS!! If I could actually find a girl that is right for me I would hold on, never let her go, and make her feel #1. But why do girls pick the opposite of this when there is this option out there. It makes no sense.....

[*mipadi*]

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but the guys who are genuinely nice to girls, who treat them well, who won't cheat on them, are, more often than not, annoying pathetic. They're so insecure that they feel that they have to bend over backwards to make people--especially girls--like them, so they end up playing the nice-guy routine: doing everything for the girl, talking to her a lot, etc.--except they never take the last crucial step to say, "Hey, how about a movie Friday night?" They sit and hope and pray that by being nice, the girl will suddenly say, "Hey, I'm madly in love with you!" but that never happens.

Jerks, on the other hand, are often jerks because they have a lot of self-confidence--often to the point of arrogance. However, having self-confidence means they can go up to anyone and ask them out, and be reasonably assured of receiving a "yes" reply.

[angelrevelation]

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but the guys who are genuinely nice to girls, who treat them well, who won't cheat on them, are, more often than not, annoying pathetic. They're so insecure that they feel that they have to bend over backwards to make people--especially girls--like them, so they end up playing the nice-guy routine: doing everything for the girl, talking to her a lot, etc.--except they never take the last crucial step to say, "Hey, how about a movie Friday night?" They sit and hope and pray that by being nice, the girl will suddenly say, "Hey, I'm madly in love with you!" but that never happens.

Jerks, on the other hand, are often jerks because they have a lot of self-confidence--often to the point of arrogance. However, having self-confidence means they can go up to anyone and ask them out, and be reasonably assured of receiving a "yes" reply.

i agree, i guess

but i guess lots of girls like the bad boy image... and maybe they aren't looking for anything serious?

it's the same with me. no guys seem to like me...