i like someone with a gf Options

[jubjubscrr]

ok so i like this guy named Chris, and hes a seinor, but im a sophmore. i know it must sound crazy, but it gets worse. he has a girlfriend and i have been trying to not like him for my entire freshman year, but it hasnt worked if anything i like him more. i know hes completly out of my reach, but im crazy about him hes such a fun sweet guy. and his girlfriend i knew briefly in middle school and shes a nice person my friend keeps trying to help me get over him, but its not helping and im probably going to never see him again after he graduates this year im not sure if i should tell him before he graduates because i dont want to go through life thinking "what if" but i definatly dont want there to be awkwardness between us i mean he calls me "kid" all the time so he probably thinks of me as like.. a younger sister or something so maybe i was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to maybe move on or just help me cope until i get over him ill accept any advice! thanks!

[ParanoidAndroid]

The same is happening for me. If he has a girl friend don't get one-sided if you know what I mean. If you don't, well to put it bluntly, he has a girl friend right? To tell the truth that means he has feelings for HER (sorry if I sound mean ). It's no use if he's happy with someone else. It's just a krush. I was once crazy over a guy but after accepting the fact that he has someone else I soon forgot about him. Same will happen for you I hope. There are plenty of other guys out there. But if you want to tell him how you feel, I suggest to make sure it doesn't seem like you want him to break-up with his girl friend. When I confessed my feelings for a guy who has a gf I said, "I like you but I wish you to find happiness." You can say something like that. Just make sure it doesn't sound like you're a control freak.