The Worst Mistake of MY life, Can I have advice? Options

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

Well, I need HELP!

In now in 8th grade.. but What i'm now telling you.. took place when I was in 6th grade. You see this guy that I liked starting talking to one of my friends on AIM. And she told me about the things they would talk about. So, one day I was online and he IMed me. [I assumed that my friend had given him my screen name] And we started to talk, and I found out that he liked me.. and I like him too. It was like a dream come true. Untill one day he asked me to be his girl friend. That's when I panicked. I told him that I'd think about it, and thats when I made the biggest mistake of my life. I told him NO.

You see, I am the youngest in my family.. I have two older brothers. And at that time neither of them had EVER gone on a date. So I told him no, because I thought that my parents would tell me that I was TOO YOUNG to go out. Now I'm starting to like him again.


Now, I'm in my last year of middle school, and I know that high school next year I'll meet cute guys, new guys. And What if I might want to go out with them. I want your advice. Should I go behind my parents backs and go out with a guy that I meet... Or should i tell them. But if I tell them, HOW? I feel so scared to tell them, cause my father seems so strict. He's going to have to meet the guy and make sure hes not someone my dad doesn't want me going out with. He hasn't said this, but I KNOW it will happen

Any advice? Please?

-Christina

[kill.t3h.r0cK]

Errm, besides that, yes, Christina, I'm gonna have advice for you. Doesn't Gab still like him?

Double date w/ me Or y'know you can go places w/ lots of friends and just split up w/ them to have some alone time w/ **** or someone you end up dating. I hope you don't get pissed that I know what's going on.

Your parents are going to find out sooner or later. But, they'll understand, it can't get worse than Ashly's mom, serious. I think it's best if you y'know talk to it to just your mom first and...yeah. Ask her for just one date and see where it goes from that. Or date him for a month or so...and then decide to tell her. I know, it's scary, but really, it's a lot better in the end if they know.

I mean...My dad was just like, "I hope you know what you're doing with broccoli head, Pam...I mean, couldn't you be more shallow?" Now that was strange advice from him...Much better if they know...eventually.