long-distance, can i get him to give in? Options

[Willing]

okay. the deal is that my "friend" or.. we could call it a "friend with benefits" lives about an hour and a half away from me... he says that he would go out with me if we lived closer. its not that long of a ways from each others' towns and he still wont. we both said i love you to each other and we've basically told each other everything. we stay on the phone for over 4 hours at a time(but i have to call him, i get free long-distance calling), and he really really likes me. i told him that we could meet up again real soon, but he keeps doubting it, and saying that we'll never see each other again. it makes me feel like crap. help?!

~Willing

[ClaudelGFX]

Uhm,what can i say is,there were 32949293 couples evan from the other part of the globe who got married after just talking on irc/chat or any other kind of messengers over the years,and BAM after some years they got married,so all you have to do,is to findout more and more about "that guy",before just jumping like that,because like we all may know (i admit) most of the men's are lookin for 1 night of "sex" and then they just vanish/dissapear,so you betta think twice,before doing something that you can regret for the rest of your life,he dare's you to go lol.

PS:You can listen 394923944 ppl opinion,but you're the one who "feels" the facts of life,words are useless sometimes,you're the one who will decide where/when or what will happen backthere.

PS:men's & woman's can cheat eachothers even they walk handbyhand over the street.(there are 239492394 types of cheating)

A good thingy for both of you ,to keep the relationship,even you both are talking over the phone/net,go and see your partner 1-2 times (or more) per week,or viceversa.(knowing the distance its not so big,you both can visit eachothers)

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