Ugh. Options

[SemiErotic]

I wish I knew why no guys liked me, I'm not asking for a sold mate of anything, just a f**king boyfriend like every other girl I know. I have like, barely any expeirience with guys and I feel really left out, and I do't get why it's so hard for me, I mean, I don't thnk I'm drop dead gorgeous or anything, but I wouldn't consider myself hideous...Maybe iI'm just annoying, but yeah, I'm done bitching now.

[Chii]

That's baloney. The point of dating in high school, possibly even in college, but especially high school is to have fun mainly, and also get some experience with relationships while you can still safely make mistakes--but mostly it's to have a good time. Kids in high school aren't dating to find a potential mate--they just want to have a good time, and dating can help with that. Sometimes people take the dating thing too seriously. It should be to have fun, not fulfill some future goal.

are you kidding me? are you saying that people should just date to mess around and sh*t?

so you'll be fine with someone dating you for a year and then out of the blue be like, yeah that was fun the way you spent so much money and time on me but it wasn't real. oh well, maybe i'll see you around sometime.

oh, and just dating a girl "to get some" is a great relationship too? my god. it's people who think like you that make people make so many "does he like me?" "what's going on in our relationship?" and "why is he doing this to me?" topics here.

[*mipadi*]

are you kidding me? are you saying that people should just date to mess around and sh*t?

so you'll be fine with someone dating you for a year and then out of the blue be like, yeah that was fun the way you spent so much money and time on me but it wasn't real. oh well, maybe i'll see you around sometime.

oh, and just dating a girl "to get some" is a great relationship too? my god. it's people who think like you that make people make so many "does he like me?" "what's going on in our relationship?" and "why is he doing this to me?" topics here.

Whoa, honey, don't presume to know my feelings about relationships. I'm not saying that you should just jump from person to person or not care; I'm saying that, especially in high school, you're absolutely insane if you are dating someone purely to marry them. Who is going to get married in high school? It's highly unlikely. So that's not the reason people date. People date to have fun. Having fun doesn't mean you don't take the relationship seriously or date "just to get some"--I never said that, and I'll appreciate it if you don't put words in my mouth, thanks. You can have a serious relationship with someone while still having fun--that's what relationships should be, fun. They shouldn't be a lot of work, or stressful--they should be a good time.