Ugh. Options

[SemiErotic]

I wish I knew why no guys liked me, I'm not asking for a sold mate of anything, just a f**king boyfriend like every other girl I know. I have like, barely any expeirience with guys and I feel really left out, and I do't get why it's so hard for me, I mean, I don't thnk I'm drop dead gorgeous or anything, but I wouldn't consider myself hideous...Maybe iI'm just annoying, but yeah, I'm done bitching now.

[ApocalypseAelis]

That's baloney. The point of dating in high school, possibly even in college, but especially high school is to have fun mainly, and also get some experience with relationships while you can still safely make mistakes--but mostly it's to have a good time. Kids in high school aren't dating to find a potential mate--they just want to have a good time, and dating can help with that. Sometimes people take the dating thing too seriously. It should be to have fun, not fulfill some future goal.

Yes, but it's still immature to want a boyfriend just for the sake of having one or to fit in. Although it's not as serious, you can't look at it as though it were a fad, wanting a boyfriend because everyone else does. You may not plan on spending your entire future with a highschool boyfriend, but you still need to respect and like the guy, not just have him as your boyfriend so you can be like everyone else.


Don't worry, your boyfriend will come along someday. If it takes longer, when you find him, it will be all the sweeter and he will be an even better boyfriend than you imagined. Be patient.

Oh, and you're not ugly at all. -_- Don't be so pessimistic.