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 Aug 19 2005, 07:59 PM
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 wanderlust personified.  Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797  |
how many of you have been in one and share your experience.
i ask because i just recently fell into an open relationship. sort of like "friends with benefits" but a little more serious than that, and we're allowed to date other people. he and i agreed to to this because both of us had just gotten out of really long-term relationships, don't like the drama that accompanies a relationship, and feel that we're too young to be tied down and should be having fun. however, since the agreement, i've sort have found myself catching feelings and thinking about him and missing him more than i should for something that is suppossed to be "open" and "casual". i also hate the idea of potentially sharing him with other women. i don't know how long this is going to last without me wanting more out of our relationship. i wish i didn't fall so easily.  perhaps I'm just not cut out for this.
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Aug 19 2005, 11:44 PM
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why dont you tell him how you feel?
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Aug 20 2005, 10:04 AM
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wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
QUOTE(MetalChick77 @ Aug 19 2005, 11:44 PM) why dont you tell him how you feel?  because i'm worried he doesn't feel the same way. and i can't take rejection well. 
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Aug 21 2005, 01:51 AM
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QUOTE(xquizit @ Aug 20 2005, 8:04 AM) because i'm worried he doesn't feel the same way. and i can't take rejection well. Although I understand what your feeling, I still say that asking him about it is the best way. I also highly doubt he will reject you. |
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xquizit open relationships Aug 19 2005, 07:59 PM
OhXiet_ItzDonnA QUOTE(xquizit @ Aug 20 2005, 9:04 AM)because ... Aug 20 2005, 06:38 PM Spiritual Winged Aura I never been one.
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Dont share anybody with ... Aug 20 2005, 01:22 AM Programmer Open relationship....as in you two are just messin... Aug 20 2005, 10:20 AM sheepy well not really but, i guess i never really planne... Aug 20 2005, 05:11 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx I think open relationships jusst leave the door op... Aug 20 2005, 11:58 PM |
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