which would you rather have Options

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

i've been thinking about it and, which friend would you rather be friends with. someone who is really into themself. like thinks they are really pretty and everything. or a friend that hate how they look and had a really low selfesteem. i have a friend that like hates herself and i always with that she would stop saying all this stuff. but then i have/had a friend who thinks she is really hott, like she thinks she has a big butt and huge boobs and i wish she would just stop. so my answer to my question, if i had to chose between the two, i know its really selfish but i think i would choose the low selfesteem one. so final question would you rather have a friend with a high selfesteem or low selfesteem and.. would do you spell selfesteem

[silver-rain]

Hmm, chii brings up a good point about the negativity from someone with low self esteem, but I would still rather be friends with that person. I know some people who have really high self esteems, but are so annoying; they go on and on about themselves and how good they look, how they could get any guy they wanted, etc., and frankly, I find that attitude appalling. Sure, some positive self esteem isn't bad, but I hate it when people think highly of themselves and think that they're all that, when they aren't. However, sometimes people with low self esteem don't broadcast that and usually aren't negative. I have a friend who has low self esteem, but she's fun to be around, and isn't negative.