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He Won't Go Away, He won't leave me alone :(
tetrastar
post Aug 18 2005, 02:46 PM
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(EDIT)::: Thank you everyone for helping me. I don't need further advice on this. :::(/EDIT)

To anyone that reads this, thanks for using your time on me. To anyone who has any advice, thank you extra!
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Someone happened to come across my Xanga and do one of those "hey, random props" comments and so I propped him back and we eventually became friends. We talked online over AOL Instant Messenger, and then I guess he liked me so he asked me for my phone number. Fortunately, I was smart enough not to give it to him. "That's ok. I don't want to make you feel uncomfortable," he said. So we stayed friends and talked some more. Then I told my friend he asked me to go out to lunch with him one day and she got really mad at me so we got into a fight. She figured he knew my email, full name, the town I lived in, and how I looked like, so he would come to my house and kidnap me or something.

She was looking out for me, so I told X (I'm going to call him X) to stop talking to me and to forget me and I'll do the same and act like nothing ever happened. Well, I have this Anti-Stalker module that tells me who visited my page when, and he STILL visited my page after, which freaked me out because he visited my page more than I myself visited it, and that is just plain creepy and stalkerish.

I never confronted him about it, thinking he would eventually lose interest and go away. As time went on, his logged visits lessened and eventually disappeared. Until I noticed that he logged out of his username and had a different IP Address. I knew this because he forgot to log out one time and I traced that IP Address to all the other "anonymous" visits. I got really scared (still am) but he never commented or said anything, so I left him alone. Well, it was my birthday August 16th (just a couple days ago), and he emailed me. He acted like nothing was wrong, which offended me a lot. He wanted to do something with me on Sunday, like take me out to the movies or something. Well, I knew I needed to shoot him down, but I didn't know how so this is the email I wrote to him:

"Hey X

I guess you forgot that I'm not supposed to talk to you...
This is going to sound really mean and all, but I think it's really
creepy that you would still think of me and remember me. I need to put
my foot down and just say it. Please leave me alone. It makes me
uncomfortable. I just want to forget everything and you make me feel
scared.
I do not want to go out with you, I am sorry. I am flattered that you
would want to do something with me, but I'm sorry I can't accept. To
be blatantly honest (so as to not lead you on or anything), I don't
want to have any kind of relationship with you. I just want you to
leave me alone... And this is not because of my friend or my family or
anything, this is from ME. I myself have made this decision. You
really creep me out.
Please if you have any respect for me, please move on with your life
and leave me out of it. I know you'll find a nice girl to go to the
movies with and all, but it's not me. Sorry to reply in such a mean
way, but it's the only way to get you to stop bothering me. Sorry.

And thanks for the Happy Birthday."

I have not gotten a response yet. I'm pretty sure he checked his email, because he was expecting my reply. I'm really scared. I want this guy out of my life and now he's figured out a way to BLOCK his OWN IP Address so now even my stalker tracker won't work on him. How do I know? He left a "Happy Birthday" comment on my xanga on my birthday, but when I check my tracker it doesn't have any record of him visiting my page at all.

HE WILL NOT LEAVE ME ALONE!! I feel as if my life is ruined cry.gif
 
 
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tetrastar
post Aug 18 2005, 04:56 PM
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Thanks, I hadn't thought of that. But what if I also want other people who come by my page to read my stuff too?

I think I'll just take your advice and leave him alone. But first should I send another mean email to him? Just in case the first one wasn't harsh enough?
 

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tetrastar   He Won't Go Away   Aug 18 2005, 02:46 PM
Ilaem   Ruined Defiantely not Anyway-- You lost me less t...   Aug 18 2005, 02:51 PM
tetrastar   :( Did I make it too confusing? Well in a nutshell...   Aug 18 2005, 03:10 PM
kill me please   so he lives by you? like the same town? dang that ...   Aug 18 2005, 03:30 PM
Hell-Rell   whoa you......really got it bad   Aug 18 2005, 03:35 PM
tetrastar   No he doesn't live in the same town I live in,...   Aug 18 2005, 03:36 PM
Paradox of Life   You shouldn't care anymore.. it's just som...   Aug 18 2005, 03:44 PM
aera   i have an anti stalker module too. well theres not...   Aug 18 2005, 03:45 PM
tetrastar   Yes but since he knows my name and the town I live...   Aug 18 2005, 03:48 PM
silver rain   If you're so worried about the xanga, why not ...   Aug 18 2005, 04:48 PM
tetrastar   Thanks, I hadn't thought of that. But what if ...   Aug 18 2005, 04:56 PM
Paradox of Life   Have you told your parents?   Aug 18 2005, 10:00 PM
_sarcastic_   ignore him, eventually he'll go away. i mean s...   Aug 18 2005, 10:40 PM
tetrastar   I have not told my parents because they probably w...   Aug 19 2005, 11:58 AM
mipadi   I don't really see the big deal. So the guy k...   Aug 19 2005, 01:32 PM
dao   block his xanga... and any other xanga of his, or ...   Aug 19 2005, 07:22 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   Tell the police if he still do harass you in any o...   Aug 20 2005, 05:20 PM
xsilent_angelx   iht doesnt really sound like a big deal really.. i...   Aug 20 2005, 09:58 PM
PinkTrash   You're worried that he'll show up at your ...   Aug 20 2005, 10:49 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   too long for me to read..   Aug 21 2005, 12:03 AM
suddenly she   1) thanks for making that easy to understand and r...   Aug 21 2005, 04:44 PM
tetrastar   Well it's not such a big deal to you if you...   Aug 21 2005, 07:09 PM


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