He Won't Go Away, He won't leave me alone :( Options

[tetrastar]

(EDIT)::: Thank you everyone for helping me. I don't need further advice on this. :::(/EDIT)

To anyone that reads this, thanks for using your time on me. To anyone who has any advice, thank you extra!
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Someone happened to come across my Xanga and do one of those "hey, random props" comments and so I propped him back and we eventually became friends. We talked online over AOL Instant Messenger, and then I guess he liked me so he asked me for my phone number. Fortunately, I was smart enough not to give it to him. "That's ok. I don't want to make you feel uncomfortable," he said. So we stayed friends and talked some more. Then I told my friend he asked me to go out to lunch with him one day and she got really mad at me so we got into a fight. She figured he knew my email, full name, the town I lived in, and how I looked like, so he would come to my house and kidnap me or something.

She was looking out for me, so I told X (I'm going to call him X) to stop talking to me and to forget me and I'll do the same and act like nothing ever happened. Well, I have this Anti-Stalker module that tells me who visited my page when, and he STILL visited my page after, which freaked me out because he visited my page more than I myself visited it, and that is just plain creepy and stalkerish.

I never confronted him about it, thinking he would eventually lose interest and go away. As time went on, his logged visits lessened and eventually disappeared. Until I noticed that he logged out of his username and had a different IP Address. I knew this because he forgot to log out one time and I traced that IP Address to all the other "anonymous" visits. I got really scared (still am) but he never commented or said anything, so I left him alone. Well, it was my birthday August 16th (just a couple days ago), and he emailed me. He acted like nothing was wrong, which offended me a lot. He wanted to do something with me on Sunday, like take me out to the movies or something. Well, I knew I needed to shoot him down, but I didn't know how so this is the email I wrote to him:

"Hey X

I guess you forgot that I'm not supposed to talk to you...
This is going to sound really mean and all, but I think it's really
creepy that you would still think of me and remember me. I need to put
my foot down and just say it. Please leave me alone. It makes me
uncomfortable. I just want to forget everything and you make me feel
scared.
I do not want to go out with you, I am sorry. I am flattered that you
would want to do something with me, but I'm sorry I can't accept. To
be blatantly honest (so as to not lead you on or anything), I don't
want to have any kind of relationship with you. I just want you to
leave me alone... And this is not because of my friend or my family or
anything, this is from ME. I myself have made this decision. You
really creep me out.
Please if you have any respect for me, please move on with your life
and leave me out of it. I know you'll find a nice girl to go to the
movies with and all, but it's not me. Sorry to reply in such a mean
way, but it's the only way to get you to stop bothering me. Sorry.

And thanks for the Happy Birthday."

I have not gotten a response yet. I'm pretty sure he checked his email, because he was expecting my reply. I'm really scared. I want this guy out of my life and now he's figured out a way to BLOCK his OWN IP Address so now even my stalker tracker won't work on him. How do I know? He left a "Happy Birthday" comment on my xanga on my birthday, but when I check my tracker it doesn't have any record of him visiting my page at all.

HE WILL NOT LEAVE ME ALONE!! I feel as if my life is ruined

[Paradox of Life]

You shouldn't care anymore.. it's just some online freak. If you didn't give him your address or anything, it should be alright. Just don't communicate with him anymore. If he sends you an E-mail back, delete it before you open it. If you want him to leave you alone, you have to LEAVE HIM ALONE.