is it weird to feel as if you like ur gf/bf more, than they like you? Options

[LittleLulu]

from a while ago i've been feelin asthough i like my bf more than he likes me

im not sure if its just me but from the beggining i felt like i was always the one to make the first move..weather tellin him that i like him i the first place...first kiss..when we usually hold hands and so on.... n blah n blah

not that he DOESN"T...i just feel as if most of the time its me'

i have yet to tell him that i think its weird how he doesn't do anything when we go to see movies.(maybe i've watched too many movies but isn't the guy suppossed to hold the girls hand or SOMETHING?) we've been going out for over 5 months (1 month im in china but still ).............hes told me hes shy to express his feelings. ..and since i've been to china hes even admitted that hes been thinking of me less

i dont know what to think

i cant help but thinking about him all the time. hes in my dreams. hes like the first theing i think of when i wake up iin the morning and the last before i go to bed. sometimes i feel like...its not worth it. because i care too much..in comparison

i dont know if its just me...or maybe im being paranoid again. but i need help.
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ok some of you guys have said that hes just takin things slow. Well,i guess i forgot to mention that we started..doing..stuff...like after 2 moths of dating. you know...like the bases n all that stuff.. we never went all the way though. Anyways, but like after we had one breakup things just sorta stopped..even after we got back together we took things bit more slowly. and now im just not sure whats going on.

[sweetest-emotion]

he's not taking things slow, it looks like he may have just wanted a physical relationship! i dunno, i totally feel ya with the "i think i likehim more then he likes me" thing. for me it was a bad sign. well, he was giving me physical signs (like less hand holding, less smiling, just less contact and physical attention). so then i confronted him about it, and thats when we broke up. crap. i kno. but i dunno, since you're away in china...thats tough. you may be exagerating things. wait till you get back. lay it on him gurl!