Easy but Hard Question: How Do You Make Friends?, Yup, this is the most juvenile question |
 Aug 10 2005, 10:55 PM
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Okay, thank the good creator that I've been blessed with best friends and friends all my life until now I am starting a new school without anybody from my school last year. I had many friends before because I've known the majority them since elementary school, and all it takes is a new barbie for someone to be your friend. I'm not really a "social" person without my friends. I'm not all that shy but I have a fear of people but then I have a fear of being alone. I just find it hard to approach someone and say "my name is Keely, can I eat lunch with you", I like being approached to people rather than talking to strangers. If you don't get what I'm saying, basically, this year I'm starting a brand new school with new people and I don't know nobody at all there, and I have no people skills ... any tips on making friends?
- I know it sounds really stupid but I had bad experiences trying to make friends at sleep away camp a few years ago, lol. - I know I should let things happen naturally but I have a fear of not fitting in, and I'm a worry-wort to the extreme. I had a dream that I went to my new school and nobody noticed me at all and I couldn't sleep the rest of the night (or the next night) - yes, lol, I know, I'm weird. |
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Aug 10 2005, 11:14 PM
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I'm going through the same thing. Except I'm joining school at grade 10 (here in bc are highschool is from grade 8 to grade 12) so everyone else will have their friends and I will have none.
for the first couple days I MIGHT hang out with my brother and his friends, but I don't want to be a pest and annoy him so I know I'll ahve to try to make some friends. I just hope I find some. I know what your'e going through, I'm a worry wort too, I jsut try not to think about it too much. 
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Aug 11 2005, 03:59 AM
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QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Aug 10 2005, 11:14 PM) I'm going through the same thing. Except I'm joining school at grade 10 (here in bc are highschool is from grade 8 to grade 12) so everyone else will have their friends and I will have none. for the first couple days I MIGHT hang out with my brother and his friends, but I don't want to be a pest and annoy him so I know I'll ahve to try to make some friends. I just hope I find some. I know what your'e going through, I'm a worry wort too, I jsut try not to think about it too much.  Ahh, at least you have a brother! I am going through the same thing ( and I will be an incoming 10th grader too! ) sigh* 
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xx_Fashionista_xx Easy but Hard Question: How Do You Make Friends? Aug 10 2005, 10:55 PM
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