this stinks.., >.< Options

[chinke3xcuti3]

This might be long, but please help anyways.

Okay, well I'm vietnamese (this isn't my account, I am on here to ask some webdesign questions, this isn't emily, this is her friend). Anyways, I've always been fascinated by the korean culture.

This is how it just starts out, since I was little, I have been watching those korean shows that are translated to viet. I just adore all the people, especially the guys, well, some of them.

Well, okay. My family is kind of screwed up, and my dream career was to become a korean singer or something. Now, that is just a dream, and you're probably cracking up right now.

Anyways, here is the thing, even though I'm far far far away from being an adult, I always think about it.

Okay...Well, I don't know, my parents tell me I can be whatever I want when I grow up. I've always lied to them telling them I wanted to be a teacher, and all of my family memebers are always pressuring me about school, it just gets annoying.

Here is the thing, I truly want to learn korean, but I don't have many asian friends, and their not korean. I told my oldest sister about this, how I wanted to become a korean singer or something, and she was like, "OMG!! ARE YOU FORGETTING THAT YOU ARE VIET!!! NOT KOREAN!!!"

Do you think this is bad? I don't want to tell my parents how I really feel, seeing how my sister re-acts, I'm kind of scared to tell my parents. My parents and I don't talk, and when I say, "we don't talk", we seriously don't talk. They are the kind of parents that don't understand much about kids these days.

Yes, I know this is silly of me. My sisters always tell me that I have a great singing voice, but I need to improve on some things. I've always wanted to take some sort of dance class, but I never tell my parents this, because they are always so busy dealing with other stuff, they just don't have time for all of the stuff I want to do. I also always wanted to learn korean. So...why am I telling you all of this?

Do you think I'm stupid for wanting to be a foreign language singer? Does it seem like I'm betraying my country?

Yes...I should just let some things flow. Just give any kind of advice you want.

[xtreme_<3]

first off, can you even sing? that's nice that you want to be a korean singer and all but shouldn't you have some kind of back plan? in case things don't work out? because if you spend all your life in this dream world of yours and when it does come crashing down, you'll be lost. kids often dream about things that usually like this but again, it's just a dream. i'm not trying to bring you down but the real world is much harsher and seeing as how you said you are very far from being an adult as in you must be very young, you might change your mind as you grow older.