Going crazy here Options

[xFaith]

Ok big blurt coming up;

I have a friend, called M. Shes really nice and stuff.. but.. when it comes to boys, shes so obsessive. She had a bf for a month or so but she broke up with him yesterday... While she had the relation she was really obsessive already with other boys but now.. its terrible.. i like this boy called B., and now she is flirting with him and talking about him, but still shes saying that she wont try anything and that he is "for me"... its soo annoying, because she keeps on saying it.. and now she is chatting with this other guy i really like.. R. Hes a player and stuff but yeah.. we were at his place with my friends and M. (after we kissed) and he was all flirty with her... (few weeks ago, when M still had a relationship) this is making me feel bad, since R neither M doesnt know i like R.. (i like B too, its really confusing). and it wouldnt make a difference since it seems R doesnt have any feelings and will flirt and kiss and so on with all girls And i now hear R wants to go out with her and i know whats gonna happen on that date.. im so screwed, i dont know what to do since i dont know if i should tell M., because its not that big of a deal but its kinda hurting me

[Chii]

what do you think is flirting? talking and laughing? that's not flirting my god. just because you like him doesn't mean that you have claim over him, he's a person not a stuffed animal.

why are you letting this R guy kiss you when he feels like it? all you're doing is letting him use you.