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 Aug 3 2005, 04:16 PM
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hey, i have a problem and was wondering if anyone could give me some advice, or help me...
The situation is that me and my best friend both really like this guy, she's going out with him at the moment but she's gone on holiday for 4 weeks, and she's already been gone for 2 weeks. In that time me and the boy have got close and he's told me he really likes me too, we've been flirting loads and now i feel bad about all this, could any body help me on what to do? thanks |
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Aug 6 2005, 10:48 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
don't let it go to your head. his flirting with you is proving the kind of guy he is: player, backstabber, cheater... etc. these kind of dudes will flirt with anything two-legged in a skirt.
if he is truly interested in you, he is the one who should gently break up with your friend with your support. meaning, you're in the background unless your friend wants to confront you about it. only then should you respond to her. why? because whether you like it or not, you are somewhat, if not completely, at fault. like someone else said, don't apologize to your friend unless you mean it. if you don't care, i say go for it... but remember: what goes around, comes around AND NOBODY likes a backstabber--which is what you would be if you continue this farce. |
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the minority *needs help please* Aug 3 2005, 04:16 PM
pink_is_love i say don't go for the guy. friendship is defi... Aug 3 2005, 04:20 PM yummy_delight Stop it. NOW.
Chicks before d*cks, honey. You can... Aug 3 2005, 04:21 PM mouse_3k wow back off or your a slut. its your best friend ... Aug 3 2005, 04:21 PM Kristinaa COMMUNICATION. I swear.Sing it with me.
Tell you... Aug 3 2005, 04:29 PM anubis uhh... i wouldn't tell her if i were you.
but... Aug 3 2005, 04:34 PM ursedonah back off for now. Friends ALWAYS come before guys.... Aug 3 2005, 06:09 PM JessBur1981 Yeah don't tell her. Just leave it alone. Good... Aug 3 2005, 08:20 PM
suddenly she QUOTE(JessBur1981 @ Aug 3 2005, 9:20 PM)we fe... Aug 4 2005, 06:22 PM iNyCxShoRT Stop it, thats rude. He's in a relationship at... Aug 3 2005, 08:25 PM xxaznxgurlxx What do you think ? Would you rather break up your... Aug 3 2005, 08:35 PM Paradox of Life This guy is not trustworthy. He's cheating on ... Aug 3 2005, 08:36 PM aera her boyfriends flirting with you... her best frien... Aug 3 2005, 09:44 PM yukichan BACK OFF..
That is one of the worsest thing you ca... Aug 4 2005, 03:44 PM Lo Mein seriously back off like everyone said
you moved in... Aug 4 2005, 06:13 PM angel_revelation when your best friend finds out (and ooo she will)... Aug 4 2005, 06:15 PM pyrochick19770 That's pretty bad.
I've been in a sitch li... Aug 4 2005, 06:17 PM whooooshy she's your friend, and he's just a guy. an... Aug 5 2005, 03:37 AM sheepy okay, if the guy is your friend's already, jus... Aug 6 2005, 09:45 PM Spiritual Winged Aura ^
face, fate or force?
Anyways, i sort of agreed ... Aug 6 2005, 11:50 PM Spirited Away QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Aug 6 2005, 11:50 PM... Aug 7 2005, 01:07 AM Spiritual Winged Aura Oh. i didnt know that is a word. i have bad vocabu... Aug 7 2005, 02:50 AM mishyerr Both ditch the boy. If he even considers cheating ... Aug 7 2005, 11:46 PM xFaith Dont go for him, hes kinda using you and your frie... Aug 8 2005, 02:31 AM Ilaem Keep the friend
Keep the friend
Keep the friend
Ke... Aug 8 2005, 02:53 PM |
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