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Help Me, please take this poll! Input from any1!
you know this girl for 2 years, and you fall in love with her, but you don't want to tell because you don't want to loose your relationship. But if you don't tell her, you will be dissapointed at yourself. what will you do?
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shadow9677864
post Jul 1 2004, 03:23 AM
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PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
 
 
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*mipadi*
post Aug 4 2005, 10:26 AM
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Key facts about relationships:

1. Relationships must be mutual. If both parties want to just be friends, it will work; if both parties want to be lovers, it will work; if one party wants to be more than friends, and the other wants to just be friends, it will not work--whether you say anything about your interest or not.
2. Why? Because most likely, there will always be stress on the relationship. Whenever you hang out, you'll always want more, even if you try to play it as "just being friends." The other person will sense the stress, too.
3. Solution? Tell her how you feel. Best-case scenario, she feels the same (or is willing to date and see what happens), and it works out. Worst-case, she isn't interested, and maybe you stop being friends--but as #2 points out, that might happen anyway.
 

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shadow9677864   Help Me   Jul 1 2004, 03:23 AM
LiNHy POO   you should tell her how you really feel... its bes...   Jul 1 2004, 03:26 AM
ryfitaDF   ok. if you're in love with her and she's n...   Jul 1 2004, 03:28 AM
dani41790   i think u should tell her.   Jul 1 2004, 04:34 AM
lAzN YiN YanGl   this brings back memories...it was this way with m...   Jul 1 2004, 09:13 AM
crazeegirl411   Ask or feel forever regret. The worst that can ha...   Jul 1 2004, 09:57 AM
immersion31   i say tell her. if she is a really good friend the...   Jul 1 2004, 10:42 PM
xxshexxayxx   DUDE. TELL HER. CUZ SHE MiTE BE FEELiNG THE SAME W...   Jul 1 2004, 10:56 PM
Justingamemaster   hell if she don't like you and she's a r...   Jul 1 2004, 11:37 PM
TBoltzbabe   You'll regret what you didn't do more than...   Jul 2 2004, 12:49 AM
babygurl_xtacy   tell her.. cuz.. what if she likes u back..? you...   Jul 2 2004, 01:32 AM
pm3k   i let girls do that job for me lol... girls making...   Jul 2 2004, 01:36 AM
ichiban   tell her of course .. =]]   Jul 2 2004, 02:31 AM
fullmusicedmajor   TELL HER! NOWWWWWWWWW   Jul 2 2004, 10:34 PM
..:loveee.NuTTii   I don't think you should tell her you LOVE her...   Aug 2 2005, 12:32 PM
Kristinaa   COMMUNICATION-TELL HER DAMMIT! You gotta tell...   Aug 2 2005, 12:34 PM
mipadi   Ask her. In life, you don't regret your failur...   Aug 2 2005, 12:36 PM
pinayprincess   well in this case, it would be a boy lol... but im...   Aug 2 2005, 02:48 PM
CrazayChristian   Dammit... You are in almost THE EXACT same positi...   Aug 2 2005, 04:41 PM
Lo Mein   something i dont understand is if you tell them ho...   Aug 2 2005, 05:04 PM
HoodieObsessed   just ASK HER!! If she sais she doens...   Aug 2 2005, 05:25 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   Ask her. You'll regret if you don't ask h...   Aug 2 2005, 05:33 PM
iNyCxShoRT   You mean tell her, you put ask her well I think y...   Aug 3 2005, 12:33 PM
iNyCxShoRT   You mean tell her, you put ask her well I think y...   Aug 3 2005, 12:33 PM
ursedonah   tell her how you feel. I'm in the same kind of...   Aug 3 2005, 06:35 PM
mipadi   Key facts about relationships: 1. Relationships m...   Aug 4 2005, 10:26 AM
baby-girl2987   i say tell her or at least talk about how u feel a...   Aug 4 2005, 10:44 AM
Shortiiex   let your feelings out...if she doesn't feel th...   Aug 4 2005, 03:53 PM
JessBur1981   I made another post about thoughts on life. Read t...   Aug 4 2005, 04:51 PM
angel_revelation   tell her. if she doesnt like you... she should b...   Aug 4 2005, 06:17 PM
xrytx   ummmm.. i think u better do nothing but keep on as...   Aug 4 2005, 11:39 PM
sweetest_emotion   holy crap u sound like my ex-bf!! grr...we...   Aug 4 2005, 11:40 PM
maia_dc   Tell her how you feel about her, but don't put...   Aug 5 2005, 03:00 PM
xtreme_<3   couldn't help noticing you spelled disappointe...   Aug 9 2005, 01:24 AM
lipstickvanityx   tell her. maybe she'll tell you she likes you....   Aug 9 2005, 12:29 PM
Paradox of Life   Don't tell her anything at the moment because ...   Aug 9 2005, 12:33 PM
raenbow*   i fell in love this this friend of mine.. a guy, b...   Aug 9 2005, 12:39 PM


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