Neglective, What happened? |
 Aug 3 2005, 08:49 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you!  Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674  |
Okay, usually I'm not the kind of person that would care about things like this, but it was last year when I had my first boyfriend. 6th grade. You're probably thinking it was some pathetic little puppy love piece of shit thing, but I really thought I was in love. And you would think I'd gotten over it by now since it's been what.. 4 months since we broke up. Well.. it started with a love letter he sent me. We'd known each other for only about 7 or 8 months. Well, it was the sweetest thing I had ever read in my whole life. 2 pages of how much he adored me and how he felt when he first saw me a such. I suppose I let 'first love' cloud my judgment for the duration of our 'going steady'.
He was in 8th grade and I was in 6th (he's 14 and I'm 12). He was embarrassed to hang out with me in public, so we'd keep it a secret and meet after school. But oftentimes whenever I said hello to him and there were other people around, he'd just ignore me and I wondered if it was because he was ashamed of loving me. We exchanged letters for 2 months or so and I kept them in my closet. I thought about giving them all back, but I decided against it. I don't even remember where they all are to this day. After a while, I got sick and tired of him treating me this way. He wrote me a letter saying that he thought it would be better if he hung out with kids of his own age and me with kids my age. That was a comment hidden between lots of others (let's meet at the library, you're so hot!) and it just totally pissed me off. He even gave me a necklace inside that letter. But I gave it back to him and told him to leave me alone. To hang out with kids his own age. I don't know if I broke up with him or he broke up with me, but I've been dreaming about him as if we were still good friends. Is this normal? Did I do the right thing? Is there something better I could have done? |
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Aug 3 2005, 10:04 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
you did the right thing. personally, I would have dumped him sooner because that's not right to just ignore you when he thinks that it won't be considered cool to talk to you. no offense, but he sounds like a bit of an a-hole...
I'm proud of you for breaking up with him. |
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Paradox of Life Neglective Aug 3 2005, 08:49 PM
dahding even tho i don't really know you.
i'm pro... Aug 3 2005, 08:53 PM
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Is t... Aug 3 2005, 09:24 PM Froshy It seemed that your relationship was faulty to beg... Aug 3 2005, 11:26 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b itis this normal ? - there actually are a lot of r... Aug 4 2005, 03:44 AM sheepy you go girl(:
you definitely did the right thing, ... Aug 6 2005, 09:56 PM Shortiiex of course you did the right thing...if he is asham... Aug 6 2005, 10:03 PM visualfusion The right thing? Yes, morallistically speaking. Ye... Aug 8 2005, 11:11 AM Kristinaa YOU GO GIRL
Seriously you did the right thing. If... Aug 8 2005, 11:15 AM xiMiJix hmm yea ...you shoudlve broken up with him.....but... Aug 8 2005, 11:22 AM Ilaem Your lover boy's a PUNK
He only loves you when... Aug 8 2005, 02:33 PM |
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