should I ask him out?, I don't want to ruin our frienship |
 Jul 30 2005, 09:44 PM
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I have this friend and we talk all the time, but he's sending me mixed signals... I don't know if I should ask him out or not because I really don't want to mess up our friendship because he's my best friend right now. I know he's a shy guy and he has a rep for never asking the girls he likes out and I want to go out with him... but I still don't know if he likes me.
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Aug 3 2005, 08:49 PM
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Aug 3 2005, 10:00 PM
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straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
QUOTE if he doesn't like you, it puts him in a really shitty situation. don't feel like quoting all the no's ^^ 'cause that would take up too much space... but, yeah, I thought of that... and I don't want him to go out with me 'cause he feels sorry for me or 'cause he doesn't want to "hurt my feelings" or whatever. that's another part of the problem... he's one of those really nice shy guys and I have a feeling that if he didn't like me, he wouldn't want to say that... which makes it more complicated... ----------------edit 3:17 A.M. August 5th-------------------------- I just told him I liked him... (03:10:09) me: how many questions am I allowed? (03:10:10) me: lol (03:10:38) him: lets start w/ one and c how much self control i have after that (03:10:43) me: lmao (03:10:45) me: ummm (03:10:58) me: whats your deepest darkest secret? (03:11:04) him: thought so (03:11:06) me: lol (03:11:31) him: ok (03:12:30) me: long answer? (03:12:31) me: lol (03:12:54) him: there have been many nights where i have been laying in bed, staring at the ceiling, trying to determine if i like u or **name removed, but it's my best friend** more (03:13:01) me: hmm (03:13:10) me: ever come to a conclusion? (03:13:24) him: not yet (03:13:36) me: on a similar note (03:13:58) me: sometimes when I lie in bed I think about whether or not you like me (03:14:10) me: 'cause I like you and then there was a little bit more... but that's the main part. neither of us asked the other out though... I had a feeling he liked my friend too, but I know she doesn't like him... but I didn't want to say that... that would sound sorta bitchy in my opinion... so anywho... I'll probly ask him out sometime soon |
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ursedonah should I ask him out? Jul 30 2005, 09:44 PM
Cake. That, is a tough one. Really.
You should ask arou... Jul 30 2005, 09:54 PM
visualfusion QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jul 30 2005, 6:54 PM)And ... Jul 31 2005, 12:50 AM Lo Mein You should ask because if says yes then good =) if... Jul 30 2005, 11:35 PM iTS PATiLLA xP How long have you guys been so close? If it's ... Jul 31 2005, 05:13 AM iNyCxShoRT First of all do you like him? 'cause you didn... Jul 31 2005, 08:13 AM pinayprincess if its mixed signals... TALK TO HIM... to go RIGHT... Jul 31 2005, 07:53 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b i say ask him. its better to know what could have ... Jul 31 2005, 08:24 PM Kristinaa Ask if he likes you.
yes?- THEN GO OUT WITH HIM
... Jul 31 2005, 08:51 PM ursedonah QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 31 2... Jul 31 2005, 08:58 PM shanny QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 31 2... Jul 31 2005, 09:02 PM Oranite hmm this is a toughy. I lost a very good friend on... Aug 1 2005, 01:53 AM tweeak what you shouldn't do is ask someone else to a... Aug 1 2005, 02:06 AM Paradox of Life Don't. Obviously you're not ready. Aug 1 2005, 02:20 AM Shortiiex First Keep flirting...and see if he flirts back
Sh... Aug 1 2005, 07:11 AM blkpride i asked ou a friend once. She said no, but our rel... Aug 1 2005, 07:20 AM ROARxD you could start a chat with him and like somehow l... Aug 1 2005, 09:21 AM mipadi I'd say, if you want to ask him out, go ahead ... Aug 1 2005, 12:32 PM xObAbYeGuRLxO If he's a best friend.. umm i personally think... Aug 1 2005, 10:11 PM ursedonah this sounds like the same things my friends were s... Aug 3 2005, 06:02 PM dahding ask him out. don't live on "what if's... Aug 3 2005, 08:37 PM ursedonah I asked him out. he said yes. problem solved.
---... Aug 10 2005, 03:36 AM iNyCxShoRT I'm glad it worked out alright
--------------... Aug 10 2005, 08:26 AM mipadi Total sweetness. Aug 10 2005, 09:20 AM HybridCountdown5 yay for u!!!!!!!!... Aug 10 2005, 11:25 AM jerseygal34 first i would like talk to his friends and see if ... Aug 15 2005, 01:32 PM jerseygal34 sry for double posting...i ddnt read the whole thi... Aug 15 2005, 01:34 PM XxVaLeRyXx ask him out. Aug 15 2005, 01:43 PM |
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