*needs help please* |
 Aug 3 2005, 04:16 PM
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hey, i have a problem and was wondering if anyone could give me some advice, or help me...
The situation is that me and my best friend both really like this guy, she's going out with him at the moment but she's gone on holiday for 4 weeks, and she's already been gone for 2 weeks. In that time me and the boy have got close and he's told me he really likes me too, we've been flirting loads and now i feel bad about all this, could any body help me on what to do? thanks |
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| *anubis* |
Aug 3 2005, 04:34 PM
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uhh... i wouldn't tell her if i were you.
but. you knew all along that he was taken, so why would you mess with him? especially when he's your friend's boyfriend!!!. that's almost wrong on so many levels. first of all, why the hell would you do that? you knew either way, it was a lose/lose situation. win the guy --> lose the friend keep the friend --> lose the guy (you know.. the one you never had) i guess it depends on your personality. you can't depend on everyone else to tell you what to do. if you're the kind of person who just doesn't give a shit about your friends, then go for it. but if you're a loyal type or whatnot that values friendship, then don't. just... damn. she is on VACATION!. how unfair it that? that's like.. a major backstab. shooting someone when they have their back turned. stabbing them in the back. not to be harsh, but that's just what it is. |
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the minority *needs help please* Aug 3 2005, 04:16 PM
pink_is_love i say don't go for the guy. friendship is defi... Aug 3 2005, 04:20 PM yummy_delight Stop it. NOW.
Chicks before d*cks, honey. You can... Aug 3 2005, 04:21 PM mouse_3k wow back off or your a slut. its your best friend ... Aug 3 2005, 04:21 PM Kristinaa COMMUNICATION. I swear.Sing it with me.
Tell you... Aug 3 2005, 04:29 PM ursedonah back off for now. Friends ALWAYS come before guys.... Aug 3 2005, 06:09 PM JessBur1981 Yeah don't tell her. Just leave it alone. Good... Aug 3 2005, 08:20 PM
suddenly she QUOTE(JessBur1981 @ Aug 3 2005, 9:20 PM)we fe... Aug 4 2005, 06:22 PM iNyCxShoRT Stop it, thats rude. He's in a relationship at... Aug 3 2005, 08:25 PM xxaznxgurlxx What do you think ? Would you rather break up your... Aug 3 2005, 08:35 PM Paradox of Life This guy is not trustworthy. He's cheating on ... Aug 3 2005, 08:36 PM aera her boyfriends flirting with you... her best frien... Aug 3 2005, 09:44 PM yukichan BACK OFF..
That is one of the worsest thing you ca... Aug 4 2005, 03:44 PM Lo Mein seriously back off like everyone said
you moved in... Aug 4 2005, 06:13 PM angel_revelation when your best friend finds out (and ooo she will)... Aug 4 2005, 06:15 PM pyrochick19770 That's pretty bad.
I've been in a sitch li... Aug 4 2005, 06:17 PM whooooshy she's your friend, and he's just a guy. an... Aug 5 2005, 03:37 AM sheepy okay, if the guy is your friend's already, jus... Aug 6 2005, 09:45 PM Spirited Away don't let it go to your head. his flirting wit... Aug 6 2005, 10:48 PM Spiritual Winged Aura ^
face, fate or force?
Anyways, i sort of agreed ... Aug 6 2005, 11:50 PM Spirited Away QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Aug 6 2005, 11:50 PM... Aug 7 2005, 01:07 AM Spiritual Winged Aura Oh. i didnt know that is a word. i have bad vocabu... Aug 7 2005, 02:50 AM mishyerr Both ditch the boy. If he even considers cheating ... Aug 7 2005, 11:46 PM xFaith Dont go for him, hes kinda using you and your frie... Aug 8 2005, 02:31 AM Ilaem Keep the friend
Keep the friend
Keep the friend
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