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natalie halloway., why is she so important?
pandamonium
post Jun 17 2005, 03:33 PM
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people go missing everyday. people get missing kidneys or body parts. and all these happen in different countries. but why is she so important like why are there so many people after her. like i know i sound really mean right now but like i dont get why her case is so important. i hope they do find her. but its just that this case is all over. is it because its in aruba?
 
 
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casper29
post Jul 30 2005, 09:32 AM
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I cannot believe that all of you can sit there and ridicule someone you don't even know (you're comments about her being pretty, smart, goodie-goodie, etc just show your lack of self esteem and the need to ridicule others). I am a middle-class white person and I certainly hope that I never get this caddy about things.

Think about the media attention the celebrities get each and every day. It's something that draws the attention of many people and the media is only doing what they are paid for. Do you think the Hallaway family is paying the media to report on this story? Doubt it! It's called genuine interest from people that care when bad things happen. Unfortunately, all of you are focusing on the fact that this kind of attention is not given to the cases in your local community or your life. There are horrible things that happen each and every day and unfortunately they do not get the attention they all deserve. Is that Natalie's fault? Unfortunately, I fear the end result is not going to be favorable for Natalie and all you people can do is complain that your life doesn't get any attention! Give me a break. I think the reason it is getting so much attention is because of the people involved in Aruba (a court judge and his son). It's more media attention for Aruba. Dirty politics always grabs the attention of the public. And yes, she is a pretty girl and had a lot going for her but I don't think if she was ugly this would have gotten any less attention than it is for Natalie.

As a parent, my heart goes out to the Hallaway family and I hope that they can eventually find some peace to this horrible event. I can't imagine what they are going through being in a different country and having the investigation at the mercy of a law enforcement system that runs very differently than things do in the US. I think they have shown great courage and strength throughout this whole process even though in their hearts they know things are not going to end in their favor.

And for the girl that wants to "pretend" to go missing, go for it! I just hope you do get the attention you deserve after pulling a stunt like that. And you should be thankful that you do not have to endure what Natalie more than likely did with her abductors. Hey, at least you will get your "10 seconds" of fame. I am pretty sure this is NOT the "10 seconds" that Natalie was hoping for!
 
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post Aug 1 2005, 07:57 PM
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QUOTE(casper29 @ Jul 30 2005, 9:32 AM)
I cannot believe that all of you can sit there and ridicule someone you don't even know (you're comments about her being pretty, smart, goodie-goodie, etc just show your lack of self esteem and the need to ridicule others).  I am a middle-class white person and I certainly hope that I never get this caddy about things.

Think about the media attention the celebrities get each and every day.  It's something that draws the attention of many people and the media is only doing what they are paid for.  Do you think the Hallaway family is paying the media to report on this story?  Doubt it!  It's called genuine interest from people that care when bad things happen.  Unfortunately, all of you are focusing on the fact that this kind of attention is not given to the cases in your local community or your life.  There are horrible things that happen each and every day and unfortunately they do not get the attention they all deserve.  Is that Natalie's fault?  Unfortunately, I fear the end result is not going to be favorable for Natalie and all you people can do is complain that your life doesn't get any attention!  Give me a break.  I think the reason it is getting so much attention is because of the people involved in Aruba (a court judge and his son).  It's more media attention for Aruba.  Dirty politics always grabs the attention of the public.  And yes, she is a pretty girl and had a lot going for her but I don't think if she was ugly this would have gotten any less attention than it is for Natalie.

As a parent, my heart goes out to the Hallaway family and I hope that they can eventually find some peace to this horrible event.  I can't imagine what they are going through being in a different country and having the investigation at the mercy of a law enforcement system that runs very differently than things do in the US.  I think they have shown great courage and strength throughout this whole process even though in their hearts they know things are not going to end in their favor.

And for the girl that wants to "pretend" to go missing, go for it!  I just hope you do get the attention you deserve after pulling a stunt like that.  And you should be thankful that you do not have to endure what Natalie more than likely did with her abductors.  Hey, at least you will get your "10 seconds" of fame.  I am pretty sure this is NOT the "10 seconds" that Natalie was hoping for!
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the only reason we seem to have no sense of compasion for this girl is because we grew up this way. We dont get emotionally attached to something unless it involves us, i know it may seem really harsh but its how kids right now grew up, since obviously you yourself are a parent. The media made us like that. I prayed for them to find her, and thats the only contribution in my mind that i could give, and i still hope they do find her.

Originally most humans are greedy and self involved, If someone was yelling rape i doubt that you would go down there with a bat and try to help, No. as long as you and your family are safe thats it.

ex. the famous case of Kitty Genovese. She was raped in an alley of apartments surrounding her. Nobody Helped her when there was in fact 38 witnesses from the Apartment complex. Nobody even called the police. None. As soon as she had an opportunity to yell rape the rapist ran away. And then he came back when nobody came down and he finished the job of stabbing her.

Its not that we are mean but its because we are so tired of this bs. If it were to be a middle class african 18 year old stuck in aruba i dont think she would get as much as attention.
 

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pandamonium   natalie halloway.   Jun 17 2005, 03:33 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   I hardly ever pay attention to the news, but you...   Jun 17 2005, 04:38 PM
mipadi   It's a perfect story for public consumption: a...   Jun 17 2005, 04:47 PM
CrackedRearView   It'll get tired out soon enough. You know, ki...   Jun 17 2005, 06:01 PM
Latina Babii   QUOTE(CrackedRearView @ Jun 17 2005, 6:01 PM)...   Jul 22 2005, 10:59 AM
vehvih   She's important to the news channels to get hi...   Jun 17 2005, 07:06 PM
sammi rules you   i was wondering the same about why a woman getting...   Jun 17 2005, 09:34 PM
not_for_anything   well youve heard the pun "weapons of mass dis...   Jun 18 2005, 10:06 PM
sadolakced acid   because aruba is harboring terrorists and we must ...   Jun 18 2005, 10:14 PM
not_for_anything   aruba? I might go on vacation there soon, weird   Jun 18 2005, 10:20 PM
Paradox of Life   People aren't making as big a deal about her a...   Jun 19 2005, 12:41 AM
not_for_anything   how do we know nothing else is going on, we have a...   Jun 20 2005, 04:03 PM
chinesekimchi   Dude its from another country...   Jun 20 2005, 09:01 PM
iNyCxShoRT   Hmm...I don't really watch the news much so I ...   Jun 20 2005, 09:02 PM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Jun 20 2005, 8:02 PM)Hmm.....   Jun 21 2005, 08:07 AM
pandamonium   QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 21 2005, 8:07 AM)Distract...   Jun 21 2005, 08:21 AM
strice   she doesn't matter. there was a great article ...   Jun 20 2005, 10:55 PM
sammi rules you   i think she just ran away and didn't wanna com...   Jun 21 2005, 10:58 AM
Kristinaa   QUOTEthink she just ran away and didn't wanna ...   Jun 21 2005, 02:56 PM
Paradox of Life   Who cares if she's dead or not? It's not g...   Jun 21 2005, 09:12 PM
andriaalazing*   because she's pretty, white, and american. ...   Jun 21 2005, 11:11 PM
sammi rules you   hrm.... i wanna pretend to go missing and see if ...   Jun 21 2005, 11:13 PM
sadolakced acid   QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jun 21 2005, 11:13 PM...   Jun 21 2005, 11:40 PM
andriaalazing*   lol, you probably would. i remember a while back ...   Jun 21 2005, 11:17 PM
sammi rules you   oh yea, i'd have to be highly christian..dangi...   Jun 22 2005, 01:48 PM
ichigofan   I think the reason why The nations media is focuse...   Jun 27 2005, 11:59 AM
lakerfever2476   Sorry, if this is a little bit off topic. How come...   Jun 29 2005, 02:32 AM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(lakerfever2476 @ Jun 29 2005, 1:32 AM)S...   Jun 29 2005, 01:38 PM
sadolakced acid   i doubt it matters. she's either dead. or shes...   Jun 29 2005, 02:43 AM
sadolakced acid   well, not on jack and bobby when missy died...   Jun 29 2005, 11:49 PM
pandamonium   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jun 29 2005, 11:49 PM...   Jul 2 2005, 02:25 AM
sadolakced acid   QUOTE(pandamonium @ Jul 2 2005, 2:25 AM)ahaha...   Jul 3 2005, 05:22 PM
Libertie   I agree. It makes me sick how the news picks favor...   Jun 30 2005, 05:46 AM
Paradox of Life   ^ Wow, you make a lot of good points. I know exact...   Jun 30 2005, 04:29 PM
Libertie   QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 30 2005, 4:29 PM)However,...   Jul 1 2005, 05:30 AM
jriv   It's incredible how people write about Natalie...   Jul 22 2005, 10:51 AM
casper29   I cannot believe that all of you can sit there and...   Jul 30 2005, 09:32 AM
pandamonium   QUOTE(casper29 @ Jul 30 2005, 9:32 AM)I canno...   Aug 1 2005, 07:57 PM
napoleon034   who's that?   Aug 1 2005, 08:56 PM
pandamonium   QUOTE(napoleon034 @ Aug 1 2005, 8:56 PM)who...   Aug 1 2005, 09:11 PM
napoleon034   QUOTE(pandamonium @ Aug 1 2005, 9:11 PM)WOW...   Aug 1 2005, 11:37 PM
RoloTomasi   Fox news and the Republican power elite, are geniu...   Aug 8 2005, 09:35 PM
pandamonium   BRINGING BACK TOPIC. Now that Aruba hasnt found n...   Oct 14 2005, 11:17 PM
sadolakced acid   the three guys admited to basically date raping he...   Oct 14 2005, 11:59 PM
islandkiss   I agree. I personally feel like cases like this ar...   Oct 15 2005, 10:00 PM
sadolakced acid   i dont' think it's a race issue. it's...   Oct 15 2005, 11:42 PM
sara16   I cant believe some of the stuff you guys are sayi...   Nov 12 2005, 01:40 AM
mipadi   QUOTE(sara16 @ Nov 12 2005, 1:40 AM)And Aruba...   Nov 12 2005, 11:04 AM
lakerfever2476   QUOTE(sara16 @ Nov 12 2005, 1:40 AM)I cant be...   Dec 15 2005, 03:16 PM
disco infiltrator   Sweetie, do you realize how many people get abduct...   Nov 12 2005, 11:03 AM
sadolakced acid   ^ a lot more lenint... i think you can throw som...   Nov 13 2005, 12:57 AM
Jules28   Natalie Holloway was, like most whites her age, a ...   Dec 11 2005, 05:36 AM
mipadi   QUOTE(Jules28 @ Dec 11 2005, 5:36 AM)Natalie ...   Dec 11 2005, 11:16 AM
illumineering   QUOTE(Jules28 @ Dec 11 2005, 6:36 AM)The bigg...   Dec 11 2005, 04:30 PM
mipadi   Alright, let's attack ideas, not the people th...   Dec 11 2005, 05:39 PM
illumineering   QUOTE(mipadi @ Dec 11 2005, 6:39 PM)Alright, ...   Dec 11 2005, 06:03 PM
sadolakced acid   natalie holloway was the victim of a date rape dru...   Dec 11 2005, 08:03 PM
mipadi   This article, dated 12 October 2005, says that all...   Dec 11 2005, 08:13 PM
sadolakced acid   well, i guess that's what i get for listening ...   Dec 11 2005, 09:20 PM
Jules28   Hmmm...... Someone asked if I "generalized m...   Dec 11 2005, 10:08 PM
Jules28   !x   Dec 11 2005, 11:40 PM
sheridan_whiteside   ZOMG TROLL BAN PLZ   Dec 12 2005, 12:23 AM
insomniac   QUOTE(sheridan_whiteside @ Dec 12 2005, 12:23...   Dec 12 2005, 12:25 AM
insomniac   QUOTE(Jules28)it is a fairly known fact that white...   Dec 11 2005, 11:51 PM
pandamonium   QUOTE(insomniac @ Dec 11 2005, 11:51 PM)gener...   Dec 12 2005, 12:03 AM
insomniac   QUOTE(pandamonium @ Dec 12 2005, 12:03 AM)I d...   Dec 12 2005, 12:20 AM
mipadi   Guys--don't feed the trolls, please.   Dec 12 2005, 01:05 AM
sadolakced acid   and don't double post. use the edit button an...   Dec 13 2005, 04:28 AM


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