should I ask him out?, I don't want to ruin our frienship |
 Jul 30 2005, 09:44 PM
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I have this friend and we talk all the time, but he's sending me mixed signals... I don't know if I should ask him out or not because I really don't want to mess up our friendship because he's my best friend right now. I know he's a shy guy and he has a rep for never asking the girls he likes out and I want to go out with him... but I still don't know if he likes me.
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Aug 1 2005, 12:32 PM
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I'd say, if you want to ask him out, go ahead and do it. First of all, relationships only work if the feelings of both parties are mutual; by that I mean, if you like him but say nothing because he might not like you, the relationship will probably still be stressed because you'll want something more, something that you don't have. So either way, if the feelings are not mutual, the friendship will become strained. Because of that, you might as well ask him out--what've you got to lose? And who knows, he might even say yes.
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ursedonah should I ask him out? Jul 30 2005, 09:44 PM
Cake. That, is a tough one. Really.
You should ask arou... Jul 30 2005, 09:54 PM
visualfusion QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jul 30 2005, 6:54 PM)And ... Jul 31 2005, 12:50 AM Lo Mein You should ask because if says yes then good =) if... Jul 30 2005, 11:35 PM iTS PATiLLA xP How long have you guys been so close? If it's ... Jul 31 2005, 05:13 AM iNyCxShoRT First of all do you like him? 'cause you didn... Jul 31 2005, 08:13 AM pinayprincess if its mixed signals... TALK TO HIM... to go RIGHT... Jul 31 2005, 07:53 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b i say ask him. its better to know what could have ... Jul 31 2005, 08:24 PM Kristinaa Ask if he likes you.
yes?- THEN GO OUT WITH HIM
... Jul 31 2005, 08:51 PM ursedonah QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 31 2... Jul 31 2005, 08:58 PM shanny QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 31 2... Jul 31 2005, 09:02 PM Oranite hmm this is a toughy. I lost a very good friend on... Aug 1 2005, 01:53 AM tweeak what you shouldn't do is ask someone else to a... Aug 1 2005, 02:06 AM Paradox of Life Don't. Obviously you're not ready. Aug 1 2005, 02:20 AM Shortiiex First Keep flirting...and see if he flirts back
Sh... Aug 1 2005, 07:11 AM blkpride i asked ou a friend once. She said no, but our rel... Aug 1 2005, 07:20 AM ROARxD you could start a chat with him and like somehow l... Aug 1 2005, 09:21 AM xObAbYeGuRLxO If he's a best friend.. umm i personally think... Aug 1 2005, 10:11 PM ursedonah this sounds like the same things my friends were s... Aug 3 2005, 06:02 PM dahding ask him out. don't live on "what if's... Aug 3 2005, 08:37 PM anubis NO
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... Aug 3 2005, 08:49 PM ursedonah QUOTEif he doesn't like you, it puts him in a ... Aug 3 2005, 10:00 PM ursedonah I asked him out. he said yes. problem solved.
---... Aug 10 2005, 03:36 AM iNyCxShoRT I'm glad it worked out alright
--------------... Aug 10 2005, 08:26 AM mipadi Total sweetness. Aug 10 2005, 09:20 AM HybridCountdown5 yay for u!!!!!!!!... Aug 10 2005, 11:25 AM jerseygal34 first i would like talk to his friends and see if ... Aug 15 2005, 01:32 PM jerseygal34 sry for double posting...i ddnt read the whole thi... Aug 15 2005, 01:34 PM XxVaLeRyXx ask him out. Aug 15 2005, 01:43 PM |
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