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should I ask him out?, I don't want to ruin our frienship
elaboratedream
post Jul 30 2005, 09:44 PM
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I have this friend and we talk all the time, but he's sending me mixed signals... I don't know if I should ask him out or not because I really don't want to mess up our friendship because he's my best friend right now. I know he's a shy guy and he has a rep for never asking the girls he likes out and I want to go out with him... but I still don't know if he likes me.
 
 
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jennyjenny
post Jul 30 2005, 09:54 PM
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That, is a tough one. Really.

You should ask around if he likes you. And if people say that he does, then ask him out. But if it doesn't work out, you should still try to stay best friends even though I hate to say this but it could ruin your friendship. But if you like him that much then ask him out.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:50 AM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jul 30 2005, 6:54 PM)
And if people say that he does, then ask him out.
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Don't listen to what people say... just listen to yourself. Just ask, and if he says he wants to be friends... just be friends.

































ps, do not listen to my advise about the "be friends" part because that rarely works.
 

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ursedonah   should I ask him out?   Jul 30 2005, 09:44 PM
Cake.   That, is a tough one. Really. You should ask arou...   Jul 30 2005, 09:54 PM
visualfusion   QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jul 30 2005, 6:54 PM)And ...   Jul 31 2005, 12:50 AM
Lo Mein   You should ask because if says yes then good =) if...   Jul 30 2005, 11:35 PM
iTS PATiLLA xP   How long have you guys been so close? If it's ...   Jul 31 2005, 05:13 AM
iNyCxShoRT   First of all do you like him? 'cause you didn...   Jul 31 2005, 08:13 AM
pinayprincess   if its mixed signals... TALK TO HIM... to go RIGHT...   Jul 31 2005, 07:53 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   i say ask him. its better to know what could have ...   Jul 31 2005, 08:24 PM
Kristinaa   Ask if he likes you. yes?- THEN GO OUT WITH HIM ...   Jul 31 2005, 08:51 PM
ursedonah   QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 31 2...   Jul 31 2005, 08:58 PM
shanny   QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 31 2...   Jul 31 2005, 09:02 PM
Oranite   hmm this is a toughy. I lost a very good friend on...   Aug 1 2005, 01:53 AM
tweeak   what you shouldn't do is ask someone else to a...   Aug 1 2005, 02:06 AM
Paradox of Life   Don't. Obviously you're not ready.   Aug 1 2005, 02:20 AM
Shortiiex   First Keep flirting...and see if he flirts back Sh...   Aug 1 2005, 07:11 AM
blkpride   i asked ou a friend once. She said no, but our rel...   Aug 1 2005, 07:20 AM
ROARxD   you could start a chat with him and like somehow l...   Aug 1 2005, 09:21 AM
mipadi   I'd say, if you want to ask him out, go ahead ...   Aug 1 2005, 12:32 PM
xObAbYeGuRLxO   If he's a best friend.. umm i personally think...   Aug 1 2005, 10:11 PM
ursedonah   this sounds like the same things my friends were s...   Aug 3 2005, 06:02 PM
dahding   ask him out. don't live on "what if's...   Aug 3 2005, 08:37 PM
anubis   NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO ...   Aug 3 2005, 08:49 PM
ursedonah   QUOTEif he doesn't like you, it puts him in a ...   Aug 3 2005, 10:00 PM
ursedonah   I asked him out. he said yes. problem solved. ---...   Aug 10 2005, 03:36 AM
iNyCxShoRT   I'm glad it worked out alright --------------...   Aug 10 2005, 08:26 AM
mipadi   Total sweetness.   Aug 10 2005, 09:20 AM
HybridCountdown5   yay for u!!!!!!!!...   Aug 10 2005, 11:25 AM
jerseygal34   first i would like talk to his friends and see if ...   Aug 15 2005, 01:32 PM
jerseygal34   sry for double posting...i ddnt read the whole thi...   Aug 15 2005, 01:34 PM
XxVaLeRyXx   ask him out.   Aug 15 2005, 01:43 PM


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