cB counciling, it would be a great idea.-jason Options

[*Statistik*]

I believe that we should have cB councilers. Why? Because some people in cb are treated harsh and unfairly. Some members here usually get bashed for making stupid topics, stupid posts, racial remarks, etc. I believe they should get help from the councilers privately on PM, or anywhere they feel comfortable. The councilers must be nice and helpful though..duh..yes..they would help the person thats getting counciled and give him/her ideas and plans to be better here in cB and try prevent bad things from happening. who's with me?

[demolished]

It's better to let the mod's duty to be the same.

- Mod would not be a good idea to council people because ..

too much pressure
too much work
not worth it
stressful
more chances of heart attack
stronger pounding heart occur
fusteration occur
etc ..

- abby advice is hardly active. why depend on her/him/it?


Of course, councilers would be nice. i'm with you.

[Spirited Away]

This is close to a debate so let me break this down to make things as easy to understand as possible for those who is confused.

It's better to let the mod's duty to be the same.
- Mod would not be a good idea to council people because ..

too much pressure
        too much work
        not worth it
        stressful
        more chances of heart attack
        stronger pounding heart occur
        fusteration occur
        etc ..

First, who are you to say we have "too much pressure"? Have you ever been a mod? I thought not, then how would you know if it's "too much work", "stressful"... etc?

Second, I'm sorry but those have got to be the saddest compilation of "evidence" or "proof" I've ever seen. Why? Though not all moderators may want to counsel, a few of us wouldn't mind because "People Staff" are here to communicate with members. It's already one of our job description.

Third, if you need someone to get you through all your life's problem, then you either need a friend (on or off cB), or a shrink. Hint: the former is the more cost-friendly alternative.

abby advice is hardly active. why depend on her/him/it?
Of course, councilers would be nice. i'm with you.

What do you mean Abby is hardly active? You want someone to solve your problem for you, but you want it RIGHT AWAY? Wow, life doesn't work that way. When you were conceived, your parents had to wait 9 months for you.

Abby is featured on cBn each month. As much as she would like to be more active, cBn currently only runs once a month so it's not possible for her. It's not like she doesn't respond to her mails. She gives her response to us now on a monthly basis like we've agreed on. If she fails to do so, then sure, she's not dependable, but so far, she's pretty dependable to me.

Maybe you're too young to understand what dependability is, but don't use your ignorance to judge others harshly.

[demolished]

i was playing around. puwahahaha.


[quote=mzkandi,Jul 29 2005, 6:26 AM]
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Couldnt have said it better.

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you're telling only me about my problems?


"No wonder .."

[QUOTE]This is close to a debate so let me break this down to make things as easy to understand as possible for those who is confused.
First, who are you to say we have "too much pressure"? Have you ever been a mod? I thought not, then how would you know if it's "too much work", "stressful"... etc?

Second, I'm sorry but those have got to be the saddest compilation of "evidence" or "proof" I've ever seen. Why? Though not all moderators may want to counsel, a few of us wouldn't mind because "People Staff" are here to communicate with members. It's already one of our job description. [/QUOTE]

But i'm just posting my thoughts. Well, if it's okay with the mod about counciling then the mod do not have to belive what i say.



[QUOTE]Third, if you need someone to get you through all your life's problem, then you either need a friend (on or off cB), or a shrink. Hint: the former is the more cost-friendly alternative. [/QUOTE]

i dont think i need one.

[QUOTE]What do you mean Abby is hardly active? You want someone to solve your problem for you, but you want it RIGHT AWAY? Wow, life doesn't work that way. When you were conceived, your parents had to wait 9 months for you.
Abby is featured on cBn each month. As much as she would like to be more active, cBn currently only runs once a month so it's not possible for her. It's not like she doesn't respond to her mails. She gives her response to us now on a monthly basis like we've agreed on. If she fails to do so, then sure, she's not dependable, but so far, she's pretty dependable to me. [/QUOTE]

I dont see her posting every month anymore. Do you?


Maybe you're too young to understand what dependability is, but don't use your ignorance to judge others harshly.

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i was being ignorant? how?
i mean, i dont see her posting in her own thread in relationship forum

[Spirited Away]

I asked Abby about this and she says she has been answering ALL of her mail since she teamed up with CB News.

But i'm just posting my thoughts.     Well, if it's okay with the mod about counciling then the mod do not have to  belive what i say.
i dont think i need one. 

And I was just posting my "thoughts" about your thoughts. So what's the problem? I THOUGHT that your rant didn't make sense and wanted to point that out to you.

i was being ignorant? how? 
i mean, i dont see her posting in her own thread in relationship forum 

Exactly. That's what I mean by ignorance. You don't see her posting so you think she's not responding to her mails and that she's not dependable? If you had read the thread in the Relationship forum AT ALL, you'd know that Abby is teamed up with CB News. Just because you haven't been paying attention you automatically say that Abby is someone not dependable. You're put her sincerity, dependability, honesty in question because YOU are at fault? That's what I meant by ignorance.

I dont see her posting every month anymore. Do you? 

I do. And so did all those people who actually paid attention to Abby before blabbing on stuff they don't know about.

Issue ONE
Issue TWO

READ THEM.

I ALSO MADE THE NOTICE THAT ABBY WILL BE FEATURED IN CBNEWS ON JULY 7TH (bold red part). AND EVEN BEFORE THAT, ON JUNE 19TH (last post in the thread) I SAID THAT ABBY IS IN CBNEWS.

There's no excuse. Read the threads now.