Trust issues, with my mom |
Trust issues, with my mom |
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Validating Posts: 34 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 133,640 ![]() |
Okay, so I dated some jerk once (who rides my bus and lives near me) and I told my mom I was going to the park by our house to walk. She caught us hanging out, holding hands, and talking (she doesn't approve of dating). This was a few months ago.
So now, I want to go walking with my friend tomorrow from 7-10 pm. Well, we just want to walk my dog, talk, and hopefully bump into my old neighbor who's in town because I havent seen him in forever and I want to catch up some. Well, now shes all: "7-10? Isn't that a little LONG to be WALKING?" "How many guys do you plan on picking up?" Blah blah blah. I mean, she doesn't know I was dating that guy before and she doesn't understand. Anyway, how could I explain we just wanted to walk? She won't believe me and I don't know if I can ever get her to trust me. Advice for anything would help... |
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![]() naïvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 ![]() |
^ Agree. Pretend you don't mind her checking up on you guys (even if you do). If she sees you're confident she can check anytime, then she'll probably back off.
I guess she's not letting you out again this time because you dated behind her back last time (and got caught).. You need to earn her trust again. I dunno, talk to her more? ![]() |
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