Older dudes., Man. They freak me out. Options

[Skyline Drive]

Thought this should be in the girls locker since it's more directed to girls and what not.

Not long ago on vacation this older guy approached me on the beach when I was alone (around 25-28) and the first thing he said to me was that he worked for the resort.

( He didn't really though, when I went back inside to our room I was reading something where it said all the watersports people have nothing to do with the resort)

Anyhow. He started up a conversation and asked for my name and was asking me all these questions. I let him know I was only 17 and he still wouldn't go away. I seriously felt really violated.. he was making all these remarks and what not I just wish I had my pepper spray with me.

Right now this 20 year old keeps trying to talk to me and it kind of freaks me out. I guess the age difference isn't too big but I still feel like his too old for me. I get all wierd. I always get this nervous feeling when older guys try to seek something with me. I just have always preferred someone my age or a year older.

I don't know. Basically my question is, Do older guys make you feel uncomfortable when they try to "holler" at you. I guess you could put it that way.

[smilz2dasun]

yea, it does freak me out. i mean, i'm 17 which is too young anyway but to make things worse, i look way younger than i really am. just thinking about how they'd try to get at some young girl. yuck. pedophiles. lol.