BRA HELP!!!, HELP!! |
 Jul 22 2005, 01:55 PM
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I need your help!!!! I'm already 14 years old and going to be 15 in less than 4 months and my mom still hasn't taken me bra shopping and i really need a bra. I mean "hello! i'm going to be in high school when school starts and my mom still hasn't taken me bra shopping!!" i hate it! my mom has bought me bras but she just guessess my bra size which is often too big. and the bras that DO fit are those stupid training bras that are soooooo thin and you can totally see my nipples. i hate it! i mean, like right now, i'm wearing three of those stupid bras AND an undershirt, just so that my nipples wouldn't be able to be seen through. and the thing is that the three of them together kinda press agaisn't my chest and leave awful red marks. Anyone have any suggestion on how to tell my mom I want to go bra shopping or should i just buy one online and don't tell her about it?? Help!! I'm desperate!! i'm about to go back to school and its so embarrasing when i'm changing during P.E.
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Jul 22 2005, 02:40 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
ok ok, hold up. Buying one online? You're 15...with that credit card that you have? And then what happens if/when you get it? hide it and wear it in secret? If you're old/mature enough to need a proper bra, you're old enough to be able to sit down and talk to your mom honestly. After dinner, or something when both of you have a couple minutes to talk, just be like "Mom, I start school in a month and I think it's time I got a real bra. Do you think we could go shopping this weekend?" And then when you guys do get a chance to go shopping, go to a store like la senza, or victoria secret where they specialize in selling bras so you can have someone help you pick out one that will fit you properly.
Being mature physically means that you need to start being mature mentally. Show your mom that you're mature and responsible by talking to her and being straightforward. Sneaking around and buying one without telling her will make things harder in the future, and if you talk to her about stuff like this now, it'll help open up your relationship, and show her that you can trust her, and talk to her. P.S. Welcome to CB! 
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