i want her to like me Options

[urbz]

okay, i really like this girl and i really havent ever talked to her, she is the most popular student in school and i am just a normal student, i wear preppy clothes as usual and so does she, i mean preppy things are supposed to turn on girls... do girls like it when guys wear pink... i just want her to notice me sometime soon... how though???

[CrazayChristian]

I already wrote a long speech about "How to get girls to notice you"

Here is a cut from it that I think might be all you really need:

You need to have her attention, make yourself linger in her mind. Lets think of it this way:

Someone walks up to you, and says "Buy this, it's good!". Now, lets pretend you never heard the word good before, and you buy it.
Now, imagine after time, more people say "Buy this it's good!". At this rate, "good" has lost its meaning, and you're bored with "good". Sure, you might buy it if it looks interesting, has value, or you've heard good things about it. But, you're simply not going to buy evertime someone says "good" to you.

Now, imagine someone walks up to you and says " Buy this...you know..nevermind." You might turn around and say "Why aren't you selling me anything?" They respond "You don't seem very qualified for this product." Noone has ever said this to you! You aren't very happy, but you feel you should be given the chance, like you're power is beign challenged. So, the salesman asks you for a number, maybe you can call when you feel qualified.
Now, this guy has stood out to you, he challenged you, and you feel the need to meet this challenge. You call him, and decide to buy this product. It may not be as good as the other flashy products. But it makes you happy that you mastered something.

Let's take a look at what happend:
Product=relationship
You=Girl
Salesman=guys
"Buy this is good"=Adverage "W-will you go out with me?"
"You don't seem qualified"= Unique "I can take you or leave you, so take me before you miss your chance."

As you can see, something stands out here. Girls don't want you to be boring and adverage. It seems LOGICAL to put them on a pedestal, but ulitimatly it will land you in the "friends zone"

When you do adverage, you do the old "I'm not sure of myself, I like to beat around the bush, avoid problems, and wait on you hand and foot." And, this might work for a while. But, it eventually wears out. It becomes BORING AND PREDICTABLE. Just like you expecting everyone to say "buy this it's good".
You also can't do other versions like "But this, you'll like it"ect. You just can't make variations up.

If you do the old "I need you, and I'll wait forever for you" routine. Guess what? You'll wait...and wait...and WAIT. WHY? Because, she know's you'll always be there. You'll always obey like a good dog, and you'll always listen. You aren't relationship material anymore. You're a "friend" that will "always be there", and she doesn't need to pay any special attention, because you gave her so much slack that now, she's holding the leash.

Here is the whole thing.

You just need to do things other guys don't. Make her feel good the way other guys don't. Simple as that ^_-(pfft right)

Edit: and since this is taken out of context. I want to add, that this does NOT mean, be an ass to stand out. It just means Don't do the "3 Too's":

Too fast
Too much
Too soon

Too fast: You go from "Hi" To "I love you" In days

Too much:You spill your heart out with all the love you have.

Too soon: You do the above, WAY too soon, and ultimatly you lost 85% of you're chance.