Should I be mad?, my part... |
 Jul 19 2005, 04:00 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION!  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769  |
Ok, well my bf went to Florida for 2 weeks. Hes been there for a week in a half now. And since he went to Flordia, He always told me he would call me when he gets back from the hotel from goin to downtown disney or w/e.
Well, each night he would call me at 12:30am or later (Which means he gets home LATE)...Im the jealous/worry type gf so when he calls later then 11pm then I get mad. I dont like him goin out, in a different state, for that long...and I have been cheated on before so thats always on my mind but I know he wouldnt do it..I trust me but not the girls. now should I be mad or just let him have fun and do w/e he is doin.......? 
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Jul 20 2005, 03:11 AM
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 emaleth Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,513 |
i agree with what most people have said.
keeping him on a short leash will actually make things worse...he'll feel suffocated in the relationship and turn to other things. the issue about not trusting other girls isn't really an excuse. maybe girls will try to make a move on him (or i don't know what else you're worried about) but if you trust HIM he will not let anything happen...cheating involves TWO people. i wouldn't get mad at him for calling you later than what you expect him too..he is on vacation afterall and i think he should be allowed to have fun without always having that "chore" of making sure he calls in time...maybe he can text msg you if he plans to stay out late? |
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mouse_3k Should I be mad? Jul 19 2005, 04:00 PM
pinayprincess hey if you really like your boyfriend, you would a... Jul 19 2005, 07:46 PM yukichan Hmm..I understand that u have been cheated on like... Jul 19 2005, 07:53 PM dahding have a litte faith. yeah, it hurts to have been ch... Jul 19 2005, 08:39 PM sheepy you should trust him, but maybe you could tell him... Jul 19 2005, 09:05 PM mipadi Let the boy have his fun, and have his space. Maki... Jul 19 2005, 11:33 PM xldubaliciousx Give him a chance. Just because you've been ch... Jul 20 2005, 12:27 AM anubis aww... quit giving him such a hard time about it.
... Jul 20 2005, 02:18 AM Kristinaa Alright. Not going to sound like a bitch, but, COM... Jul 20 2005, 02:44 AM elmogurly remember: he's on vacation. at least he calls... Jul 20 2005, 03:51 AM aera i wouldnt worry too much about it. maybe he's ... Jul 20 2005, 02:53 PM F4lling maybe the time zones are different.. Jul 20 2005, 05:01 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b ^ yeah the time zones. it might be only like 9 whe... Jul 20 2005, 06:12 PM
incoherent just trust him. he's on vacation which means t... Jul 20 2005, 07:20 PM |
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