Fall Ball, rejecting guys? |
 Jul 14 2005, 03:43 PM
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Okay, I would like everyone's opinion on this, even the guys. Next year, I'll be a freshman in high school and at my school, there's a Fall Ball. It's a big dance and it's the next best thing to prom. You can go to the Fall Ball with friends, but I hope to get a date. Plus, it's cheaper if you go with a date. My school is very small, 300 kids grades K-12, about 20 kids per grade.
Anyway, my friends all seem to think that I'll get asked to the Fall Ball by more than one guy. I'm not popular or anything, but I'm not bad either. So my question is...what is the best way to say no to a guy who has asked me? This is where I want guys' opinions, too. I'm afraid if I say no to a guy, I won't be asked by anyone else and I'll end up going alone. I know of one guy that likes/liked me and he might ask me to the Fall Ball, but I don't like him at all. I mean, nothing more than friends. Any help with this future predicament? |
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Jul 16 2005, 04:02 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ What she said!
Don't lie because people might end up asking questions (leading to more lies) and it'll just be like a big web of lies that you can't get out of.. And it could really ruin your reputation. Say what seems most natural to you. If you have something premade in your mind, sometimes it'll come out really weird, but if you're good at that sort of thing just say... "Do you want to go to the dance with me?" "You're a great guy, but I have other plans for the ball. Sorry." Or something like that. Sound sincere. |
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thinkpink5926 Fall Ball Jul 14 2005, 03:43 PM
DanielleMaria05 Maybe tell him that you've had more than one o... Jul 14 2005, 03:55 PM thinkpink5926 What if someone I don't want to go with asks m... Jul 14 2005, 03:58 PM DanielleMaria05 You can still say the same thing. They'll neve... Jul 14 2005, 04:02 PM stephinika moved to relationships Jul 14 2005, 04:31 PM enyceXaddiction well since theres only 20 people per grade...you p... Jul 14 2005, 07:20 PM ROARxD well; say the truth.
or i guess you can say that y... Jul 14 2005, 08:21 PM xldubaliciousx Just say you'll get back to them. And see if t... Jul 14 2005, 08:47 PM dahding you say no. like how u say no to drugs.
"how... Jul 14 2005, 09:11 PM wind&fire ahahaha... you school is small... my grade alone i... Jul 14 2005, 09:14 PM anubis QUOTE(thinkpink5926 @ Jul 14 2005, 2:43 PM)My... Jul 14 2005, 09:14 PM
thinkpink5926 QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 14 2005, 10:14 PM) o... Jul 14 2005, 09:47 PM pinayprincess wait.. why are you doing this so early?! .. an... Jul 14 2005, 10:08 PM yukichan QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jul 14 2005, 5:08 PM)wa... Jul 16 2005, 03:18 AM LEDO_D0RKETTE Tell him the truth. Since there is 20 people in yo... Jul 14 2005, 10:28 PM elmogurly tell him that you have to ask your parents if you ... Jul 16 2005, 03:47 AM thinkpink5926 Thanks for all of those replies! I just want t... Jul 16 2005, 09:39 AM Hiphop d[-_-]b why dont you just ask out the guy you want to go w... Jul 16 2005, 02:08 PM Kristinaa COMMUNICATION
Make yourself known. Talk to the gu... Jul 23 2005, 04:21 PM CrazayChristian Beggers can't be Choosers hun.
But, YOU CAN... Jul 23 2005, 07:02 PM Spiritual Winged Aura If you want to give him a chance then give a shot.... Jul 24 2005, 01:50 AM EriaNight Um i don't know if this is weird or not...
Bu... Jul 24 2005, 11:24 AM ComradeRed Call me an economist, but when demand exceeds supp... Jul 24 2005, 07:48 PM Shortiiex wait...your school has K-12 and you are becoming a... Jul 24 2005, 09:34 PM ichiban tell them, ill think about it? or just say no Jul 25 2005, 02:12 AM sheddingtears just say:
i'll get back to you on that. Jul 25 2005, 09:40 PM kpx_danny ooo ic. well i dont really have anything 2 say 2 d... Aug 24 2005, 09:35 PM |
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