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I Like Someone, Should I tell him?
Raiu
post Jul 16 2005, 01:41 PM
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It's like this, I'm bisexual and recently I've developed a crush on my best friend. Sure I only know him three years but he's always there for me. He knows I act differently around him now but I won't tell him why. Please help cause I don't want to lose him as a friend if I tell him. cry.gif
 
 
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post Jul 16 2005, 01:58 PM
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oh dang.
i think if you told him it would be awkward for him. and it actually would change your relationship. he would be uneasy around you , i think. this happened to me. im still really good friends with the girl, and after a while i felt like things were back to normal, altho she liked girls and me.

if you feel you should tell him, you should. if hes your best friend he might feel a bit weird but eventually he should get over it and see you as nothing else but the friend hes had for years.

but as him returning your feelings, that might be hard. hes not gay or bi either is he ? cos if he is then it wouldnt be that much awkward if ou told him. if hes striaght then .. ^ what i explained up there.

but maybe he wont be weird or awkward.
good luck xD
 

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Raiu   I Like Someone   Jul 16 2005, 01:41 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   oh dang. i think if you told him it would be awkwa...   Jul 16 2005, 01:58 PM
anubis   unless he's gay or bisexual or something---mos...   Jul 16 2005, 02:23 PM
Lo Mein   Well I recently came out too and my friends were r...   Jul 16 2005, 02:54 PM
Raiu   Well, I told him! (If you're wondering why...   Jul 16 2005, 03:07 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(Raiu @ Jul 16 2005, 4:07 PM)I might see...   Jul 17 2005, 11:36 AM
Kristinaa   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jul 17 2005, 11:36 AM)It is. P...   Jul 17 2005, 12:31 PM
enyceXaddiction   well the sooner you tell him the better. but try n...   Jul 16 2005, 06:44 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   omgosh, CONGRATS FOR TELLIN HiM !!! i...   Jul 16 2005, 10:22 PM
RiC3xBoy   Hmm..the fact that he accepts it makes him a prett...   Jul 16 2005, 11:45 PM
disco infiltrator   That would definitely be wrong. You're bisexua...   Jul 17 2005, 11:39 AM
one_lub_4_eva   don't tell him, cuz he'll ignore u and sto...   Jul 17 2005, 11:33 PM
dahding   don't just explode with all of a sudden, ...   Jul 17 2005, 11:53 PM
disco infiltrator   Guys, he already told him.....   Jul 18 2005, 12:20 AM
urbz   i would say tell him.. he might convert (if he is...   Jul 18 2005, 12:21 AM
lost_destiny   uhh no   Jul 18 2005, 03:58 PM
elmogurly   just let him absorb it and try not to pressure him...   Jul 18 2005, 04:08 PM
Bobblehead425   hm....try asking him out and if he rejects, just ...   Jul 18 2005, 06:50 PM
broken inside   My friend did that to her best friend. Everything ...   Jul 20 2006, 10:39 PM
xbabyboo   If he`s gay go for it.   Jul 20 2006, 11:14 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   This topics over a year old, the user hasn't b...   Jul 21 2006, 10:14 AM


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