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Need Advice!!, I need some advice please.
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post Jul 15 2005, 03:35 AM
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I don't even know where to start. This past week I stayed at a friends house. We went outside and it was about 9. It was me, my best friend [who's a girl], and her ex. We decided to just talk and we ending up being outside for over an hour. I've had a crush on her ex...since before they even dated and so did he. Anyway, a lot happened during that hour and a half. There were a lot of things that happened...

1.) My best friend asked him if he liked me and he didn't say anything. Then about 15 minutes later out of no where she asked "Am I good or am I good?" and he said "yeah your good". < I had no clue what they were talking about but later she told me she had asked him if he liked me and he said yes.
2.)All 3 of us were laying down watching the stars yet he decided to lay by me and watched me and stared at me the whole time. Thats when I started to notice some things. Till that moment I was clueless about the situation.

Later that night after he left and we went inside, my friend, she seemed really excited and said "he likes you" and in a happy kind of way. Anyway she asked me if I did like him and I said yes. The point of this topic is I feel bad because he is her ex. I'm not sure if I should go ahead and do something about it or leave it as both of us having crushes on each other. I stayed up for hours that night wondering what I should do and I still don't know. The thing is my best friend, she seemed really excited and happy like she didn't care that her ex has a crush on me. What should i do? Should I maybe wait till the end of the summer to do something? Not do anything at all? What would you do? I'm so confused :-/

[sry if my story confused you I tried to make it easy to understand]
 
 
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enyceXaddiction
post Jul 15 2005, 12:50 PM
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all bestfriends are like that. secretly shes feuding inside. the bets thing i to talk to her.
 
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post Jul 15 2005, 09:46 PM
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QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ Jul 15 2005, 11:50 AM)
all bestfriends are like that. secretly shes feuding inside. the bets thing i to talk to her.
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^ I agree. She's probably acting excited for you because she's your best friend and doesn't want you to feel bad but she's probably not showing that she's a little upset. I'd just talk to her and go for it =) That happened to me a few years ago and it was really hard and awkward.
 

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butterflikisSez16   Need Advice!!   Jul 15 2005, 03:35 AM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   It sounds like your bestfriend is excited for you ...   Jul 15 2005, 12:33 PM
stephenmatthewg92   I read too fast and I'm lazy. Sorry no advice ...   Jul 15 2005, 12:36 PM
XCandiixLipz69X   yeah, the fact that she seems excited when she fou...   Jul 15 2005, 12:37 PM
BitterSweetness   i'd ask her if she'd be okay if me and her...   Jul 15 2005, 12:39 PM
DORKalicious   It sounds like you have a really great friend...   Jul 15 2005, 12:44 PM
enyceXaddiction   all bestfriends are like that. secretly shes feudi...   Jul 15 2005, 12:50 PM
CloudNine   QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ Jul 15 2005, 11:50 AM...   Jul 15 2005, 09:46 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   i think she is genuinely happy. plus hes an exso i...   Jul 15 2005, 01:06 PM
Kristinaa   It sounds like she was trying to hook you 2 up, bu...   Jul 15 2005, 01:06 PM
butterflikisSez16   Thank you so much! I think I'm going to ta...   Jul 15 2005, 05:05 PM
pinayprincess   talk to her... best friends do shit like that [lik...   Jul 16 2005, 12:26 AM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   Since it doesn't bother your best friend go fo...   Jul 16 2005, 12:41 AM
sparkliez08   hayee..... yeah i know all bout this!!...   Jul 16 2005, 12:44 AM
Shortiiex   you have a good friends...your lucky..most people ...   Jul 16 2005, 06:25 PM
yOUCANtSEEmE   she said she was fine with it so go for it my bes...   Jul 17 2005, 12:45 AM
ichiban   your friend was all excited but she could have (no...   Jul 17 2005, 02:43 AM
cookienmilkfornaps   hey if your girl is alright with him liking you th...   Jul 17 2005, 03:48 AM


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