relationship with my dad, :[ :[ Options

[Mizz Rizza]

I don't have a very close relationship with my dad. The thing is, my parents are divorced but still live in the same house. yeah it's weird but thats jus how it is. but newayz, i feel so much closer to my mom then my dad. i dont remember a time when i said "i love you" to him. if you're wondering why this is, it's prolly because when we used to live in the phillipines (i was like very little) i still remember when he used to treat me badly...and the way he treated my mom wasnt very good either...and the rest of my family such as brother and sisters...but never once has he said sorry for all the things he's done...i know that it's wrong that he hasnt said sorry or whatever but i really do just wanna put the past behind us....i dont wanna give you a story of my life...i guess it just breaks my heart knowing that i dont feel like a hav a dad...it's hard for me to talk to him about it...to talk about wat happened in the past...but it also makes me sad knowing that my bros and sis dont like him either...even though i know they try to make the effort to just put the past behind them...i guess i know that he feels all alone and he barely ever gets to spend time with me and my brothers and sisters...i know that you guys will say for me to talk to him...but it's just really hard for me to...and i know it's hard for him to talk to us too....so i guess i really dont know wat to do...



i dont want you guys to say im stupid for posting this and jus tell me to talk to him
i really jus dont need that rite now
so if ur gonna say something mean like that
i'd jus rather you not say anything at all

[lilJdawg]

We're in the same situation. My parents are divorced too 'cept they don't live together since they hate eachother's guts. I also have a really hard relationship with my dad. We can never talk without getting into an arugment. Everytime, I talk to him on the phone, I would always end up crying. He treated the whole family, wife, & children bad. I haven't done anything yet but try to understand him a little better & give him time to get over himself. I guess you juhs gotta' wait & try to chill with him. It's hard I know. Sometimes, when him & I are talking about some deep shit. I really want to cry. I do feel sorry for him & I really want him to change how he is right now 'bcuhs mostly all of my mom's side hates him. If you love someone, you'll change for them. But he didn't. He went through a rough & tough childhood, his mom supposdly got murder by the maid & his father married the maid. So he had a step-mom & a fckd' up life.