this break up was hard, *tear Options

[sweetest-emotion]

so me and my bf broke up, but here's the "excuse" he gave me...: he's not ready for a girlfriend.....umm alright ....he's 17 for god's sake. and i dunno what went wrong. we were like perfect in the beginning. he was perfect. i liked him for the fact that he wasn't afraid to be with me...guess i was wrong. i know i should let go, and i'm trying, but i honestly think he was my first love. my friends say that we didn't really have ne thing in common, but when it ws just us two, it was magical. emotions filled up in me that i never felt b4. THIS SUX ASS!
soo...was his explination logical? how can i get over him?? and how can i meet new guys??

[JulianPassone]

sigh... us guys are such jerks... let me tell you. But see, some aren't. And your guy is just around the corner... (not on the corner, but, you know what i mean, right?) and i know you will find this perfect guy for you. I can promise you that. But, to find him,... you mustn't look down, cause your true love will pass by. So look up, with joy, and face the world, and dont be scared of it. We all go through rough times,... and its ok to remember them, just dont let them get to your head.

Bottom Line; This guy didn't love you unconditionaly, cause if he did, he would've gone till the end with you, even if he was too young. I know it hurts to hear this. To hear that this guy didn't really love you. But, you've got plenty of people here loving you as a friend. Keep your head up and strong, and keep your ground.

Much Love,
Julian Passone

Ill be around if you need anything. You'll get through this. I know you can.

[*mipadi*]

Bottom Line; This guy didn't love you unconditionaly, cause if he did, he would've gone till the end with you, even if he was too young. I know it hurts to hear this. To hear that this guy didn't really love you. But, you've got plenty of people here loving you as a friend. Keep your head up and strong, and keep your ground.

I think that's exactly the problem here.

Before you condemn the guy as a total a-hole, keep it mind that high school students view relationships differently--and there are big differences in how girls view relationships. Girls seem to take them way more seriously than guys. Guys are just out to have some fun, more often than not, but geez--a lot of girls seem to have planned out their weddings and future life by the time they are 16! I'm not saying you are that type of girl, but you were probably more into it than him. Doesn't make him a bad person, just means you had different views on relationships.

Look on the bright side: he could've gone out and messed around with other people while still professing to be your boyfriend. Then he would've been an ass. At least he had the courtesy to tell you straight up that the commitment was too much, and if you wanted a committed relationship, it would be best to look elsewhere.

Keep you head up. You won't find anyone else moping around (not that you are). Just go out with friends, keep your eyes open for someone, and you'll undoubtedly find him. Good luck.