Love, Getting over ur first love |
 Jul 13 2005, 03:45 PM
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I have just been in a odd relationship and sort of still trying to fight for it,
Well ive been talking to this women online now for nearly a year, and i love her soo much, bet never met her yet, i waz going to this summer. But she said she can't take the distance thing and more, so she started gettin feelings for someone closer, and itz killin me. You think i should fight for her ? or just let her go ? But the other side iz. i am a 19 year only guy, who has never been able to find a women to like me till her, ive never had a GF till her, and loosing her iz killin me soo much. and i waz planning to move to the states with her. to be with her. But then there are other parts that i find it hard to get a women to like me but i on't go into it. I just would like to know pplz views on this. Thx. |
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Jul 13 2005, 05:37 PM
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 Mr.Charismatic Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,383 |
yeah online you can be anyone and anybody and actually make up your personality --- some poeple might be shy offline but online they're the life of a party :) so you really needa find someone closer to you so you can actually know them for what they are --- hang out at some parties and get to know your friend's friends
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Jul 13 2005, 07:19 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(ishowernaked @ Jul 13 2005, 6:37 PM) yeah online you can be anyone and anybody  exactly... you don't see her face to face when you're talking, she could be saying something that looks really nice in writing but she can be laughing her ass off at you with her friends in person...i hate to say this but your whole relationship can be a lie. you don't know who she truly is, she's just words on a screen... does she say she'll see you but then something comes up? that's happened to me before, i talked to this guy, he seemed so unbelievable nice, and it was too good to be true, he turned out to be just a real d*ck to me, he'd say "sure we'll meet on so and so" it was 3-4 months until i saw him again and we live like less than 30 minutes away from each other by subway. i'm not going to say that having a relationship with someone online never works because i know by experience that it does, i'm dating someone i met online but we see each other face to face everyday now...just don't keep your hopes up, try to phase her out...maybe it wasn't a lie but there's a good chance that it was... you're 19, you still have plenty of time to find a nice girl you can see face to face...don't say that you can't find a woman, everyone can find someone who'll love them back, no matter how messed up you are or how ugly or disfigured or whatever. |
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dark_blood Love Jul 13 2005, 03:45 PM
LittleLulu ..no offense..but online relationships are usually... Jul 13 2005, 03:48 PM
Skyline Drive I think you should let it go, it seems like it has... Jul 13 2005, 07:11 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE Ahaha, you online dated her? Wow. Go get a life ... Jul 13 2005, 07:13 PM Bobblehead425 ^^^ i agree. just because you think she's all ... Jul 13 2005, 07:36 PM dark_blood thx for all the info. But just for info. we are j... Jul 13 2005, 11:09 PM xSiLLyMex You should move on. Trust me. This happned to two ... Jul 13 2005, 11:24 PM
Kristinaa Online Relationships have like a .9% change of suc... Jul 13 2005, 11:30 PM |
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