"juss friends", is anybody able to do it? |
"juss friends", is anybody able to do it? |
May 5 2005, 03:12 AM
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me -n- my bf broke up recently...-n- it was a mutual thing since we're both happy -n- whtnot...-n- we promised to remain "juss friends" but we're like....ignoring each other...has this happened to neone else out there? neone able to accomplish to still remain friends? ---
P.S. we broke up 'boutz two days ago after going out for a lil ova 6 months...if that helps |
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Jul 10 2005, 11:04 AM
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it just depends on the person you were with though.
i've got two perfect examples of me with my two ex's. my first ex, i've known since for about 8 years now (since 2nd grade) and, after we broke up, we've still managed to be really good friends (could be even better). but while we were in our relationship, we weren't that close. but my second ex. we were always all touchy-feely in our relationship. after the breakup--it was just horrible. at times we'd ignore each other and at times she'd be mad at me for the weirdest reasons. so we went from being so close in our relationship to just--flat out nothing. so my rule of thumb is, the closer you are to someone in a relationship, the harder it is to remain friends afterwards. |
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sadolakced acid it can work out.
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