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competing with others, for YOUR gf/bf's attention
SpedMonkee
post Jul 2 2005, 11:19 PM
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have you ever felt like you are competing with others over ur bf/gf's attention?

i have been going out with my gf for about 5 months and it seems like i am competing with someone else for her attention, and its not just anyone.. its her "ex". her and him are still "friends" and she is always over his place. she never comes over mine, i know its boring and what not, but still... she cant go outside anywhere with him because he is like 26 and she is 16, which is another big issue for me... ive also never been over there with her when she goes, partly for personal reasons, besides the fact i dont like him, mostly because he is her "ex"..

when she had come back from going away for a weekend, before she came to see me, she was over his house... ive talked to her about the amount of time she spends with him compared to me. one of the most recent things she said when i brough up about how i had barely seen her or spent time with her in 2 weeks she said "its not like we have to spend every waking moment together".

she says that she just goes over there and plays videos games, watches tv, and does music (because she does beats and he raps blah blah). i dont know if this is making any sense to anyone, but i needed to rable on a bit and hopefully get some advice on this..
 
 
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post Jul 9 2005, 03:02 AM
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This girl wasn't worth it. There are other fishes in the sea kiddo.
 

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SpedMonkee   competing with others   Jul 2 2005, 11:19 PM
Kristinaa   I'm competing with his girlfriend to get his a...   Jul 2 2005, 11:25 PM
Skyline Drive   Don't you see anything fishy with their friend...   Jul 3 2005, 12:06 AM
ladystarr   How do u feel about this girl...do u love her? I ...   Jul 3 2005, 02:31 AM
Shahin   Dump her. Dump her now.   Jul 3 2005, 02:53 AM
K!$$   ^ Agreed. Come on now, if she's your gf, ther...   Jul 3 2005, 03:13 AM
mouse_3k   yah...I always just confront him about it because ...   Jul 3 2005, 03:07 PM
SpedMonkee   let me clear this up just a little bit. im not tot...   Jul 3 2005, 03:59 PM
_sarcastic_   tell her that. maybe you should just dump her lik...   Jul 3 2005, 05:42 PM
SpedMonkee   lol, weve been through that before too. she then c...   Jul 3 2005, 06:06 PM
silver rain   If she would rather be with him than you, then she...   Jul 3 2005, 06:27 PM
pinayprincess   i hate when that happens... my ex,ex did that to m...   Jul 3 2005, 10:04 PM
sheepy   wow.. she seems pretty.. shallow. i dont think she...   Jul 4 2005, 12:51 PM
Paradox of Life   This girl is 16 and she used to go out with someon...   Jul 4 2005, 02:50 PM
enyceXaddiction   i always compete..its just how i am.   Jul 4 2005, 07:21 PM
SpedMonkee   i told her how i felt and then she broke up with m...   Jul 8 2005, 01:32 PM
xFaith   I agree with AkaRyux on this one. dump her EDIT; ...   Jul 8 2005, 01:49 PM
silver rain   Like xFaith said, she just twisted what you were s...   Jul 8 2005, 11:15 PM
xldubaliciousx   This girl wasn't worth it. There are other fis...   Jul 9 2005, 03:02 AM
LittleLulu   o0o0o i think thats pretty weird but if you reall...   Jul 9 2005, 05:27 AM
azn cutey chique   WOW! you mean that guy is an old cow, w00t...   Jul 9 2005, 07:21 AM
SpedMonkee   actually its statutory rape.. which is why she hid...   Jul 9 2005, 09:47 AM
heyitzmy   man she's not worth it. you did the right thin...   Jul 9 2005, 01:41 PM
SpedMonkee   thats what i keep telling myself too, but she was ...   Jul 9 2005, 05:40 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   yes and its annoying, cos i feel inadequit to the ...   Jul 9 2005, 08:45 PM
SpedMonkee   thats what i would do and thats what i thought.. b...   Jul 9 2005, 08:55 PM


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