relationship with my dad, :[ :[ |
 Jul 4 2005, 11:44 PM
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I don't have a very close relationship with my dad. The thing is, my parents are divorced but still live in the same house. yeah it's weird but thats jus how it is. but newayz, i feel so much closer to my mom then my dad. i dont remember a time when i said "i love you" to him. if you're wondering why this is, it's prolly because when we used to live in the phillipines (i was like very little) i still remember when he used to treat me badly...and the way he treated my mom wasnt very good either...and the rest of my family such as brother and sisters...but never once has he said sorry for all the things he's done...i know that it's wrong that he hasnt said sorry or whatever but i really do just wanna put the past behind us....i dont wanna give you a story of my life...i guess it just breaks my heart knowing that i dont feel like a hav a dad...it's hard for me to talk to him about it...to talk about wat happened in the past...but it also makes me sad knowing that my bros and sis dont like him either...even though i know they try to make the effort to just put the past behind them...i guess i know that he feels all alone and he barely ever gets to spend time with me and my brothers and sisters...i know that you guys will say for me to talk to him...but it's just really hard for me to...and i know it's hard for him to talk to us too....so i guess i really dont know wat to do...
i dont want you guys to say im stupid for posting this and jus tell me to talk to him i really jus dont need that rite now so if ur gonna say something mean like that i'd jus rather you not say anything at all |
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Jul 8 2005, 08:34 AM
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Well here is my 2 cent on this subject ....before you start throwing him a party set him down and have a heart to heart chat with him and let him know how his actions have hurt you.....I feel somethings are best gotten off your chest.....and he is not innocent in not trying to develop a relationship with you.....but also he may have issues that he may need to be made to face which may have caused him to behave the way he has but that does not excuse his behavior..... and then you two can decide if the both of you would like to persue a respectful, loving and healthy relationship with one another.....it takes two to make this happen so why not give it your best shot and hopefully he will also.....Good Luck Hon.....ok Dana getting off her soapbox now.
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Mizz Rizza relationship with my dad Jul 4 2005, 11:44 PM
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